Predictable, Truth Hurts. What if I tell you, IT’S MORE THAN THAT. Knowing too much just burdens your very talented and "creative" mind. Cos your knowledge on what’s less important can takes your focus away from the real things that really matter. And the little knowledge on everything will be filled with assumptions and that just too time consuming –how it gonna invite doubts, anxiety, anger and all the likes. Especially when it’s on your most special person, whom u rely a lot of trust. It’s just so easy to get hurt by that person, even how hard the person tries not to. That’s why…I have some tips to the lovers out there.
What you need to know is your partner loves you. He cares for you. He wants you in his life. He spares time for you everyday and he’s constantly proving how much he means it. Yes, you know all that. You need to know more? You need to know that he wakes up at 8 but only text u at 10? Do you need to know the reason why? Even if u can logically think that he needs his own space too, but you just need to know if he still loves you as much after not reporting every details to u? Do you want to know why he doesn’t tell you all the jokes that they share at work? And who are among the females who join them for group lunch? You wonder if he bluffs to u when he says that he’s sleepy and going to bed soon, when he actually plays games or watch dvds? All these questions could arise…if you want to really know the details, which u claim “being transparent” is the best way to go in a relationship, think again. Seriously.
Knowing that I’m just a weak human being, who are exposed to forces from outside which can get above my sanity; and think if my relationship costs cheaper than my curiosity. Right. Curiosity keeps u wondering but the answers can be misleading. You don't want small things to ruin something so meaningful, right? If you want to know everything, you are never at peace. Just let your man have his own private space, where whatever he does within that space, you have the right to Not Know. Just like you, you even lie when you're answering sms from a few different guy friends. You don't tell him that some of these guys are flirting around with you, so he won't be suspicious, cos u know it's just nothing to u, and when he tries to know too much, he might just get lost in his assumptions. You know that when he gives you your private space to not tell everything to him, he TRUSTS you that whatever you do, you won't put him behind. You should to the same. When you are willing to let go some details, that's when you realize that your relationship is more important. You'll just have to trust your partner willingly. Cling on the happy points and that's all you need to know so much...Good Luck...
What you need to know is your partner loves you. He cares for you. He wants you in his life. He spares time for you everyday and he’s constantly proving how much he means it. Yes, you know all that. You need to know more? You need to know that he wakes up at 8 but only text u at 10? Do you need to know the reason why? Even if u can logically think that he needs his own space too, but you just need to know if he still loves you as much after not reporting every details to u? Do you want to know why he doesn’t tell you all the jokes that they share at work? And who are among the females who join them for group lunch? You wonder if he bluffs to u when he says that he’s sleepy and going to bed soon, when he actually plays games or watch dvds? All these questions could arise…if you want to really know the details, which u claim “being transparent” is the best way to go in a relationship, think again. Seriously.
Knowing that I’m just a weak human being, who are exposed to forces from outside which can get above my sanity; and think if my relationship costs cheaper than my curiosity. Right. Curiosity keeps u wondering but the answers can be misleading. You don't want small things to ruin something so meaningful, right? If you want to know everything, you are never at peace. Just let your man have his own private space, where whatever he does within that space, you have the right to Not Know. Just like you, you even lie when you're answering sms from a few different guy friends. You don't tell him that some of these guys are flirting around with you, so he won't be suspicious, cos u know it's just nothing to u, and when he tries to know too much, he might just get lost in his assumptions. You know that when he gives you your private space to not tell everything to him, he TRUSTS you that whatever you do, you won't put him behind. You should to the same. When you are willing to let go some details, that's when you realize that your relationship is more important. You'll just have to trust your partner willingly. Cling on the happy points and that's all you need to know so much...Good Luck...
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