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Thursday, April 8, 2010

When You’re Not Loved As Much

I have come across friends who experience this. They feel so devastated when they feel so lacking in love from the person who they love so much. Like the person doesn’t love them as much as they love him/her, they don’t feel appreciated, they feel like they are hung by invisible rope that make them keep hoping that something is going to be better. In most cases, they just keep quiet and feel the sorrow whilst trying to fake a smile and laugh when their heart is suffering inside.

This is my personal opinion. The time will not stop even if anyone ceases to love us, to care for us or to miss us. Everything else will still go on like usual when if our heart in broken. We have all the reasons in the world to keep going – and the only one that stops us is our own self. I know it’s painful inside. It’s not your fault when someone else doesn’t appreciate you or doesn’t see how lovable you are. It’s not your fault when they can’t just see you as good as the person you are. It’s NOT your fault when some people are not grateful enough. It’s Really is NOT your fault!!

I believe that there is someone out there who has that much love that you need. I just don’t understand why you keep torturing yourself. I don’t understand why you keep suffering. I don’t understand why your heart continues to cry even after your tears have dried. I don’t understand why you waste your goodself and life over some soul who is not even made for you.

To all of you people who feel this way…Get up from this sad chapter and start a new fresh chapter. Don’t waste your blessings. Don’t waste your life. Don’t waste yourself. It’s the most pitiful situation that we can punish ourselves with. And guess what, when you’re not loved as much as you love, it’s not even your fault. Move on and see for a better tomorrow :)

3 comments:

AngeL BeaR said...

been there.

it hurts as hell but owh well..that's how life is...we can't expect anyone to love us as much as we loved them.

Twofivesix256 said...

Sometimes we become the person who loves less than we are loved...maybe it's just not the right person at the right time, right :)

Twofivesix256 said...

At the end of the day, It's really not our fault... :)