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Friday, April 10, 2020

"The Lonely People"


During this Movement Control Order (MCO), we have to get stuck in the house. Most families are together, good for them. But there are also situations when they have to be apart because of the restriction. They can't just cross-district when they want. So for those who are stuck inside the house with their partner, at least you don't have to worry cos they are near you. But of course other issues might surface like more arguments about money, kids and other things. But at least, rest assured they both will do anything to fix their problems together. 

But now think about the singles, the divorcees, the single parents, the brokenhearteds, or those who are separated by distance, how are they gonna cope with being stuck at home with no one to talk (or argue) with? Lucky now that we have the internet. Still, not all have that someone to talk with to pass all the hours in a day.

Maybe we have experience coming across "the lonely people". When we once thought someone really loved and cared, when actually they were just Lonely. Maybe you are that lonely person who finds comfort in someone just for temporary relief. You just want to fill your time. You just want to share some laughter so that you are not lonely. And nothing more. Lets say, your lonely season is over, suddenly you are not available anymore. So, do you think this is fair to your victim of loneliness? Or maybe you want to taste your own medicine when one day you become that victim too?  

Anyway, before you do anything, please consider both sides. Not just you but also the victim of your loneliness. Lets not use loneliness as an excuse to waste someone's time and play with their feelings. They are humans too. I mean, our time is running out, right? Who wants to be lonely but please have some decency. You are responsible for it and don't drag an innocent creature just to dump them afterwards. Also, to all of you, also avoid from becoming the victim of these lonely people. When their presence is seasonal, it's not a good sign. The sincere ones will care about you without seasons. 

So everyone, alone doesn't mean lonely. Find stuff to enjoy instead of people. You might mistakenly send the wrong signal when actually you are just lonely. Don't and stop doing that. Enjoy life without hurting more hearts. Keep people's heart safe from your loneliness. And I do wish and hope all the lonely people will find what they sincerely want in their lives so they are no longer lonely for the rest of their lives, not just for a season ya? Behave everyone!

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