My Winning Possession

Yesterday in the chatroom, we saw a nick that sounds something like sixpax^abs – that is clearly referring to the flat and trimmed abs. So when he got into my YM and I saw his profile picture. He was showing his flat abs but his face is covered with his hands. So, yes, it was Stricly Abs and muscles and nothing else!! Hahaahaha. I could not complain cos I am also using Profile pic that shows my hair and nothing else!!! *Lols. So it crossed my mind that it’s nothing new that we show our “Winning Possession” in the profile picture. To have a 6 packs abs is definitely something to be proud of and maybe it was only logical that the guy emphasizes his abs even in the profile picture. So does that imply my winning possession is My Hair? Hahahahaahaha. You guys can see my hair all over this blog. Even in my YM and FB profiles. Oh well… what, do I notice that I actually give people the impression that My Hair is actually my Winning Possession? Haahahaha.

So when I finally put that conclusion into words, Well, maybe I just have to admit that My Hair is indeed my winning possession. But after I said that, acit chided, “No, your brain is your winning possession.” Suddenly it sounds so funny because I was relating this Winning Possession with profile pictures and If I really need to put the best winning possession that I have (and in this case, my brain), how could I put My Brain as the profile picture? Hahahaahahahahahahhaahahaha. Thanks citmon for the remark cos now I know that after all the banters we had in the channel, he actually thought I’m quite brainy (*big biggg grinzzz… Hahahahahahaha). Speaking of the Real winning possession – of course mine is NOT my hair!!! My hair is just average, needed a lot of treatment and appreciation before it can appear attractive enough to get a compliment. I might not adore this hair as much if it wasn’t MY hair so now you know – I don’t love my hair because it’s beautiful but it’s because it’s MY hair then only I think it’s beautiful. ß Exactly how we should treat our blessings. We might not have The Best possession, but because we are blessed with it, we make it the best for us. That is the art of being grateful with what we have. We don’t have a freaking choice. :)

Well, there are simple ways to determine our winning possessions. Usually, these possessions are the reasons why people appreciate us, remember us for and would love to have our company around. I don’t know about you, but to make a little analysis on myself…I don’t think my friends like to come and sit there with me for hours just because I have a long and thick hair. *Lols. None of them actually thought my hair actually matters that much. Hahaahaha. I remember when I texted my bestfriend, asking if we could have lunch together whenever I go to the shopping mall beside her office building. I recall how upset she was when she couldn’t make it because she was outstation, or when I cancelled it in the last minute. She would sulk and said she was so sad that we could not meet. I was a bit curious why she made it sound like hanging out with me is something that she could not miss. I remember when she was jumping for joy just because I told her that I wanted to go shopping at the mall near her workplace like she has not met me for years. I mean, I take my own bestfriend as “The magic mirror” for my winning possessions because this lady knows me for many years. We have had cold wars and arguments in the past. She once stayed in the same room as me back in college years. So – through her I could reevaluate myself once again. It’s through her that I learn that I am not a perfect human being, but I am A Friend she could not lose. Though I might not be the most helpful one when it comes to lending hands, but I am still the best person to consult when she has very bad emotional problems. As a matter of fact, all of my friends make me the place they go to whenever they ask for opinions despite having a low profile and average life compared to them. So I find a way to agree with citmon that maybe my brain is my winning possession, because it’s my brain where all that fruitful ideas come from, but it’s not so until it’s paired with A Heart that cares. So I can’t decide. I just feel that a combination of more than one element make up for our best values. So maybe it doesn’t matter what the winning possessions are, I am just glad to be me. :)