A Gadget That Might Help Save The Day

Don't tell me your handphone isn't important to you. It's what you use to connect with your loved ones, business deals or negotiation, work purposes and even emergency situations. To some of us, handphone is something that never leaves the hand, especially now that handphone is more than just to make and receive calls and SMS, but also to watch movies, listen to songs and even surf the net.

Imagine you are SMS-ing or calling while you’re lying on your bed. Suddenly your handphone is giving you that signal of critical battery power which is going to auto-off anytime. Then you have to look for the nearest source of electric power where plug in your charger. Lucky if that is near your bed. If not? You have to sit near the electric source and stay there while you continue on your mobile-phone activity. In the situation where you can pull the extension near you so you can lay back on your bed, you never know when you gonna fall asleep in the middle of SMSing and you never know anything funny that can happen with the electricity. And think about the times of a sudden black out that sometimes take hours and when you’re away from home and when it’s unpractical to run to your car just to charge the phone during emergency times. This is when this charger is very useful. You can practically charge your phone away from the electric source (which can give you electric shock if you’re unlucky) and as you go out to have your chit chat meal or hangout with your friends, you can continue charging your phone inside your handbag!! How convenient is that? *grinzz…

It’s very cheap. I bought it with the price of RM10 for the body, and RM3 for the cable. I believe, some of you maybe buy it at cheaper price. This charger only needs 1 AA battery, for use for emergency only, of course. You never know, this charger could save your day.

How Personal Is Your Handphone?

Today began with a disaster. I found out that my other handphone was missing. Something was really wrong. Suddenly the morning wasn’t so bright anymore. I looked all over, almost with watery eyes…Where’s my handphone???

I paused and thought for a few seconds – What should I do Now??? Suddenly I thought that I could not go with the day. All my initial plan to start doing my work was reset back to zero. I could not go without that handphone. What did I most concern about?

I realized that if the handphone was empty, I would not care that much. It’s the content of the handphone that made me feel like it belongs with me and only with me. It’s only by then I realized how PERSONAL my handphone is for me. I could not just pass my handphone to people and let them use it all they like. And now what if that happens accidentally?

Maybe that’s the price of being someone who is so reserved – I don’t usually share with people about my private stuff. It’s from the gadget that I often bring that has all the answers. But the problem is, once the gadget goes to the wrong hands, they will know a lot of my private matters. A total violation to my privacy. I am the type who likes to keep as much stuff possible because I really appreciate all the nice things people sent to me, and in this case, the text messages. So from my handphone, u definitely know if someone is special or not in my eyes. I will keep hundreds of SMS from the same name which to me are personal. My goodness. So that explained why I went haywire this morning?

To some people, this habit might definitely teach them a lifetime lesson. I remember many years ago that my ex called me during odd hour and he was so panicked asking me – “Could u please call my number cos I think I’ve just slipped the handphone somewhere.” I could remember that tone as if someone’s life was in danger. I called it but the line was off. So it was obvious that someone took the phone and remove the sim card. My ex told me that he put a lot of personal stuff including my pictures and his family. “So u mean other person has all the pictures now?” It’s such a bad feeling when something that you thought would be your personal possession is shared with the people who are not even anyone in your life. I mean, the feeling is so bad that u got really phobia about saving things in your handphone . Suddenly you feel that it’s crucial to not rely on any gadget to get in touch of the pieces from your loved ones. Suddenly you feel that maybe it’s impossible, but you have your memory and your warmest thought where u store all the nice memories of your loved ones, and not in the gadget like a handphone that could change hands by accident.

So is it wise to keep your handphone very personal? Of course it’s obviously NOT WISE to do so, but if you still want to challenge yourself that you gonna take care of it as carefully as your take care of your body and soul, maybe that option is viable. Hehe. I found out that after my ex lost his precious handphone, he never looked at his handphone as something “very dear” to him anymore. So he had to be heartless by deleting all the messages so that there’s no message left in the Inbox in the name of – “Trying to keep my privacy protected”. Come to think about it, I mean, do you have to deny the right and need to store the everyday thing that comes from your loved ones thinking that “it would be easier the next time should I lose it again.” Ouch??

Personal or not – Take good care of your precious handphone okay? :)

Note: The lesson I learnt today is – My clumsiness can cost me more than the price of a new handphone :) The good news are – My handphone is here back in my hand. Privacy still intact? Hopefully. Phewww… *Lols

Why Sabahans Suka SMS-Vote?

Dalam banyak2 pertandingan SMS di Malaysia setakat ni, mau tidak mau akhirnya semua orang mendapati bahawa kalau ada peserta dari Sabah, confirm undian SMS dia memang meletup. Daripada Akademi Fantasia, Mentor, Bintang RTM, One in A Million dan yang baru2 ni, Raja Lawak. Semuanya pernah menyaksikan how A Sabahan diangkat melalui undian SMS. What do you think?

Reality show yang first di Malaysia iaitu Akademi Fantasia knows better. Since this program menggunakan 100% SMS vote, keputusan berada di tangan pengundi SMS. Since the days of AF Season 2 where beberapa peserta dari Sabah dipilih menjadi peserta, maybe di sana lah baru the whole Malaysia nampak betapa Sabahans ni memang undi secara habis-habisan. Kita sudah pernah nampak program reality di Malaysia ni yang juaranya adalah orang Sabah – Stacy, Juara AF Musim Ke-6, Ayu Juara One In A Million Musim ke-2, Pijah dan Fiq Juara untuk Mentor untuk musim yang berturut-turut dan yang baru2 ni adalah kumpulan Kecik yang jadi juara Raja Lawak. I also remember macamana Marcellus Gatisi dan Zizie yang tidak mendapat tempat di 3 kedudukan utama untuk Bintang RTM, tapi dorang ni dapat juga habuan sebagai peserta Paling Popular yang berdasarkan undian SMS. Sia yang orang Sabah dan tidak terikut-ikut dengan demam mengundi ni, kadang2 terpikir juga. Sabah ni kalau mengikut statistic kemiskinan tegar, adalah negeri yang Paling Miskin di Malaysia. Ouch!!!

Untuk mereka yang belum pernah datang ke Sabah, maybe dorang pun a bit skeptical pasal Sabah. Maybe dorang sudah biasa dengar yang Sabah ni miskin, banyak hutan2 dan gunung ganang, dan kaum etnik yang berbagai, masih banyak kawasan pedalaman yang jauh dari pembangunan. Belum lagi dengar bahasa Sabahan kami yang pekat dan a bit melucukan bagi telinga2 yang baru sekali dengar. Satu kali dengar, macam orang Indon. Dengan gambaran2 ni semua, mungkin ada yang berpikir, memang pun tahap pemikiran orang Sabah ni maybe a bit backward sebab system pendidikan di sini maybe terikut-ikut dengan “slowness” daripada bidang2 yang lain juga. Jadi, tidak hairanlah memang selalu sia dengar oran g Sabah yang kasi cerita mcamana dorang jadi panas sebab bila sampai di Semenanjung, dorang di tanya dengan soalan2 like, “Kamu di Sabah masih tinggal di atas pokok kan?”. Mungkin soalan dorang tu ikhlas, sebab dorang memang totally tidak tau apa yang they can expect from Sabahans. Tiba2…sepa sangka, bab2 undi SMS ni the Sabahans jadi satu FORCE yang sangat kuat! Sampaikan semua org buka mata. Huiyooo…Mau untung ka? Kasi masuk saja tu peserta Sabahans, confirm melambung undian SMS! Uikss!! Like that ka?

The latest season of AF ni seolah-olah “ikut arus” sebab first time ada 4 peserta Sabah yang disenaraikan. Sebenarnya popularity program AF ni memang tidak dinafikan semakin berkurang atas macam2 sebab. Biasalah…kalau season semakin meningkat, benda2 semakin boleh diramal. Komen2 pun macam cliché saja. Semuanya benda yang lebih kurang saja. Budak bakat2 baru tu tidak bagus, or juri tidak bagus or pengacara tidak bagus, but memang adat nya macam begitu. Sedangkan the most watched reality show in the word iaitu American Idol pun dijangkakan menghitung hari untuk menuju kepada doomsday. Apa lagi dengan pengunduran Simon Cowell untuk season yang akan datang. So kalau mau ditengok dengan scenario di Malaysia alone, if you have the power to bring back the Fever, what would u do? Or maybe if you can’t, at least you still want to bank as much profit as possible. Untuk AF sendiri, it’s a profit-based program. Tidakkah pemilihan ramai peserta Sabah tu satu lifeline untuk dorang? Face it people. We the Sabahans know it. You guys know it too. I read from a website yang bagi komen pasal pemilihan ramai peserta Sabah untuk AF tahun ni kerana “Orang Sabah Suka Undi SMS”.

Sebagai Sabahan, ada one thing yang the non-Sabahans should know about us. Maybe ada betulnya negeri kami ni memang a bit backward dari segi pembangunan. Why Sabah masih mundur? Kenapa sia perlu jawab sedangkan itu adalah wakil rakyat punya kerja. Rakyat biasa mcm sia ni yang spend bertahun-tahun belajar a little bit or this and that, I don’t know if you guys agree with me when I say that the model for 1Malaysia, in terms of spirit, are the Sabahans. I remember back in uni when I learnt about semangat KeKitaaan instead of semangat KeAkuan. Here in Sabah, we have mixed culture. Kawin campur yang sangat2 berleluasa. I think we have learnt to accept one another as part of “us” and not, You are You, Me Is Me. Kami tidak mudah melatah hal2 sentimen yang menjejaskan hubungan sesama manusia. Sepa sangka, dalam kemunduran ini, kami lebih toleransi dan very open about penerimaan kepada satu2 bangsa yang berlainan. Begitu juga dengan agama. Manalah tau kalau kepelbagaian etnik dan pengekalan adat yang masih kuat yang menyebabkan kami slow sikit dalam istilah kemajuan yang dipakai secara general, but sepa sangka, ini pula yang bagi kami kelebihan. Tahukah kamu betapa pentingnya perkara tu untuk mengekalkan keamanan di Malaysia?

So if it has to be yang undian SMS ni la yang how we show people yang the Sabahans are very supportive, so be it. Sepa tau, undian SMS is how these Sabahans voice dorang niat yang terbuku di hati to let the Malaysians know that We Exist and we are very much alive, we are Happy in our Land and we are very much moving forward. Speaking of Sabahans yang sudah menang sebab dibantu undian SMS ni, I’m sure the Sabahans pun undi pakai otak juga. If you look juara2 Sabahans ni – memang pun dorang tu bagus. Kemenan gan dorang adalah pilihan bijak and I’m sure, untuk Sabahans yang sudah menang tu, bukan undi Sabahans saja yang menangkan dorang. I’m sure until the rest of the people from Peninsular pun ada juga undi mereka ni. And the Sabahans pun unquestionably akan undi juga peserta2 best dari negeri lain. For me, memang betullah undian SMS ni is the way for the Sabahans to show to everyone that biarpun kami jauh di Borneo, tapi we are much more than what those people say. Maybe we just want the whole Malaysia to know that you should look at us any less because some of us are very talented, some of us are very gifted and some of us are also very lucky – just like Some people from Peninsular. So di antara kita Tiada Beza.

NOTE: You want to feel how peaceful it is without so much of sentiment and racism? Go to Sabah, you’ll learn the rest :)

So Begging Is Now A Culture?

Whoa…apa mau jadi sama dunia sekarang ni. Ada yang bertungkus lumus cari duit, siang malam tidak tidur just to make sure kerja siap, and ada pula yang totally the opposite. Suruh org2 ni rajin2 kerja, and dorang2 ni pula just datang “minta” sikit bahagian. Biarpun bukan kawan, biarpun bukan saudara, tapi “Sia hidup susah ba geng, derma2 la sikit. Nda juga kau bawa masuk kubur tu duit.” Oh…mungkinkah begini cara mereka2 ini berpikir?

This is nothing new actually. Beggars or peminta sedekah adalah mereka2 yang kamurang senang jumpa. Mesti ada saja. Di KK alone pun memang banyak juga la kelibat peminta sedekah ni. Kalau sekali imbas, memang dorang ni hidup susah, and ada yang memang cacat anggota badan. Memang menyedihkan tengok nasib hidup dorang yang hanya bergantung pada ehsan orang lain. What work can they do to make them able to do something and get paid, right? Yes, memang the initial idea is that – some people are unfortunate enough to do nothing else but begging for people’s mercy. Those who have more might want to share. Ya know, life being unfair and all. We all know about it.

Sia ni bukanlah kategori dermawan or generous because I myself work my bump off to earn a living. Just that, I’m thankful that I am in the good condition to work and earn money. Bukan semua orang senasib. Jadi kalau tengok mereka2 yang meminta sedekah di tepi2 jalan tu --- kita terus paham. Dorang cacat, macamana mau buat kerja kan? Then rasanya memang patut juga la mereka2 yang sudi berkongsi keberkatan tu bagi sikit dengan dorang ni. Tapi mungkin betullah Malaysians ni ramai yang prihatin. Dorang cepat kesian dan mungkin dorang pun mau buat something good untuk get something good daripada yang di Atas. Well, masing2 punya reason la ba tu, kan.

Tapi cerita2 punya cerita, kesian punya kesian, sepa sangka pendapatan peminta sedekah tu adalah jauh lebih tinggi daripada yang memberi sedekah tu. Biarpun u bagi RM1, tapi ada 100 orang bagi at least RM1, rasanya pegawai biasa pun tidak dapat gaji RM100 per day. Look, I am not prejudice kepada mereka yang kurang upaya ni meminta sedekah. Memang kesian nasib dorang dan kita pun paham. Kalau kita kaya, of course kita pun nda kisah mau share sikit bagi dorang. Tapi ni lain pula ceritanya. Bila nampak pendapatan beggars ni bukan alang2, nahh…semakin ramai la mau jadi beggar. Wahh…rupanya ada juga cara mau dapat duit banyak tanpa kerja kan?? Mungkin tu yang ada di pikiran dorang.

Earlier this week I went to town and sat there waiting for the shops to open. I saw this one guy, I think at his early 20’s, dengan pakaian yang “as normal as you and me”, dengan rambut bersikat dan ada beg sandang yang kecil. Reminds me of budak2 kolej yang keluar outing dengan kawan2 untuk window shopping or just untuk jalan2. Exactly macam tu. Cuma this guy ada lain sikit. Dia bawa ni mangkuk kuning (mangkuk Maggie) and pegi ke setiap orang yang ada di situ dan hulur mangkuk tu. Trust me, mau cakap dia gila, I don’t think so. Mau cakap dia cacat, lagilah tidak. Totally a view yang shocked the hell out of me. Apa sudah jadi ni?? Memandangkan dia ni cergas dan tidak sikit pun ada masalah fizikal, dia dengan cepat saja pegi dari satu orang ke satu org dengan harapan ada yang mau kasi something di mangkuk tu. I mean, kalau kita sendiri macam tu, the first issue is, MALU a.k.a EMBARRASSED! You guys pernah kah joking dengan kawan2 and said something like – Sia betul2 teda duit oo, mau pigi minta sedekah dulu ni baru dapat pegi shopping. Yes, something like that. You know u are just kidding and there’s no way u would ever think that anybody would do that but I witnessed it with my own eyes that anyone like u and me could also be a part-time beggar! Omigawdd!! Now, don’t talk about losing face, don’t talk about embarrassment, this is MORE than all that. If u don’t have a face to save, or you don’t care a thing about how would it be if anyone who knows u or your family saw you do that would make u go straight to the headline of talkabouts- OK! Maybe u don’t care! But it’s a pity to have a perfectly healthy youngster to be doing something like that just to get easy money. What, do you guys see this Begging Culture as a workable culture? That, heyyy…while unemployment is on the rise, and let the refugees to the construction works, Why Work People? When we can just take a bowl and go around and ask a little from what these people make from working. OMIGAWDD, don’t u guys see it?

And ada lagi ni badan2 kebajikan yang selalu datang dari satu ofis ke ofis and minta derma. Bukan satu, bukan dua, tapi banyak!! Macam2 ada. 2 hari yang lalu pun ada juga. Masa tu sia sedang cakap2 dengan customer, and then datang pula dua orang perempuan ni. Dia bagi tu paper yang nicely printed on dorang punya organization yang membantu anak2 yang susah dan sebagainya. Memang nama tempat tu tidak pernah dengar. When my customer asked, “Di mana ni?” Dia cakap, “Di Semenanjung”. “Tiada di Sabah ka?” “Baru mau buat di Sabah punya.” Then my customer said, “Wah, jauh juga kamu datang hanya untuk minta derma kan?” Dorang cakap, “Ya, memang macam ni. Mau tolong kan ini budak2 kurang upaya kan.” That time, I didn’t derma. Sebab the same thing sudah pernah datang beberapa kali dan sia pernah juga bagi derma once. It made me thinking….kalau tengok flyers dorang and receipt payment dorang tu…memang dibuat dengan begitu proper sekali. It needs a lot of money to fly these people to go to Sabah and minta derma. Flight, penginapan, and then belanja “marketing” dorang pun silap2 main puluhan ribu juga tu. Then sia terpikir, kalau itu duit semua diguna untuk tolong orang2 susah yg macam dorang cakap tu, sia sure memang dorang mampu tolong banyak kanak2 dengan kos yang dorang guna tu. Then imagine laa, kalau ini semua cuma satu sindiket saja yang hanya satu level up daripada peminta sedekah yang duduk di kaki lima. Dorang ni pakai smart2 lagi, terbang jauh2 – wah… Don’t u guys sense something is not right?

Not to mention lagi bila ada beberapa orang ni datang bawa surat yang kununnya anak saudara dia sakit kronik and then minta sumbangan ikhlas. Simply kasi tinguk tu surat ja and then buat u rasa bersalah kalau tidak bagi. Lain lagi yang merupakan pesakit tu sendiri – yang siap tunjuk bekas operation or bengkak2 di badan yang buat orang convinced yang dorang ni nda menipu. Sia pernah bercakap dengan customer sia yang ada ahli keluarga yang betul2 kena macam tu and minta derma betul2. Dia cakap yang memang derma tu sangat bermakna untuk ahli keluarga dia yang sakit tu. Kita pun boleh paham juga kalau sudah keadaan mendesak. Apa pun kita sanggup buat. Tapi imagine la kalau orang buat semua tu semata-mata untuk dapat easy money, apa macam? I mean, apa mau jadi sama ni dunia kalau benda ni dijadikan culture. Sia masih ingat lepas ja dua perempuan tu datang, ada sorang salesman lelaki yang almost kami nda layan but dia try juga untuk say something yang make us want to let him show what he was selling. He was selling this travel charger yang pakai satu bateri. Kami rasa dia jual dengan harga yang tinggi juga but memang that charger useful so we just bought biarpun kami tau kami mungkin boleh dapat harga yang lagi rendah kalau dijual di tempat lain. Lepas that guy jalan, we agreed that, “If dia tipu kita tu harga pun ndapalah…itu rezeki dia sudah tu. He Made The Effort to make money dengan cara yang betul. You sell, I buy. I don’t just come and ask for your money by kasi dengar u cerita yang buat u terpikir sama ada I am talking the truth or not.

So my point here is, yang meminta sedekah secara “suka2” or “just for fun” – I know you guys are not worried about us – paling2 pun we kasi u guys RM1/RM5/RM10 saja, tapi we pity u guys – kena bagi anggota badan yang cukup, tidak mau guna betul2. Orang lain yang disable ada lagi sanggup buat macam2 untuk earn money…sebab kena bagi kehidupan ini saja pun satu anugerah yang bukan untuk ditengok ja dari jauh. Live it and if it means we have to go through difficulties untuk make money, terpaksa hidup susah sekali sekala because of circumstances yang tidak menentu – Inilah kehidupan. I don’t get it guys. Why you want to waste all your abilities. No Pain No Gain. But it doesn’t apply for this Begging Culture. Gara2 kamu, orang pun prejudis dengan mereka2 yang mungkin betul2 perlukan bantuan. So…Ask yourself, After Everything that you’re given and have learnt, is this the best way you could figure out how to make a living? Pikir2 la sikit geng...:)

Believe Her Or Not

Girls are just like guys. Some good with words, some don’t. But trust me, in a few things that frequently come out from the girl’s mouth, maybe you should decide To Believe Her Or Not…

Especially when she says that…

1. She doesn’t care about what people say when she’s overweight as long as she’s happy inside. But then she still wants to lose weight, “It’s not because I’m worried what they think but it’s really just for health”

2. She believes that every woman is beautiful in their own way and that she doesn’t wonder why a handsome guy would fall for a “less beautiful” woman than her.

3. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder and that she never compares herself with her colleagues on, Who’s prettier?

4. She thinks a guy would be teasing her around by calling her names like Cutie and tells you that, “I don’t deserve to be called that.”

5. She is not the jealous type that it’s okay for her friend to get all the attention from the guys.

Hehehe. What inspires me to write this is a chit-chat that I had with a friend earlier today. She always gives me the impression that she grooms just for herself and she’s never judgmental towards the other women when it comes to their looks because she always tells me that it’s not good to think bad of others. But today’s spontaneous chat told me otherwise. Even the nicest girl like her is not spared from being A Normal lady that she does think that looking good is so far the best advantage that she would pick from all the other choices that she could have. That yes, we ladies do care about how we look and we easily feel intimidated by those who look better than us. And yes, we listen and care so much about what people say about our looks and it makes us feel down when people say something not so “funny” about our physicals. What makes us different is that some of us are so much into denials thinking that it’s better to wave the white flag than try to be bold just to lose. (Yeahhh…u and your neverending theories kan [256]…go to sleep laaa u dattt… *Lols)

HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHHAAHHA :ppp

Note: Am I really Kidding? Hehehe. Go Figure.

Penat Jadi Jahat

Hari tu sia bual2 dengan my friend(yang selalu bad-mouth pasal boss dia tu). Ada this guy tiba2 masuk and then pass kami this leaflet about a motorbike. Then memang gelagat that guy mencurigakan. Tiba2 dia tengok2 macam cari something, as if lah teda orang di sana. Gelagat dia buat kami terpaku dan tunggu what’s next. Luckily dia “sedar diri” and left. So I continued talking to my friend. Suddenly kami dengar orang cakap2 di luar. I saw muka2 familiar including the security guard. Then nda lama tu, tu guard masuk and told us, “Ada orang kecurian handphone” and he referred to the clerk just beside my office. And he was referring to the guy who gave the flyers. Omigawd! So the guy was a thief?

Speaking of kecurian di tempat kerja, especially handphone yang diletak di atas meja and then tiba2 ada orang datang and ask something, and next thing you know, Oh I lost my handphone!! In that particular building alone, memang kerap sangat kes macam tu. Jangankan cakap orang luar yang datang dan pergi, the suspect could be the ones who you thought were a friend. Then I raised a topic – We never know if the person’s intention is TO STEAL something. Maybe he just came and saw an opportunity to steal and he took it. It’s like, “If I don’t take it, someone would”. Something like that. So it sounds like I’m backing up these thieves…but NOPE. For your information, I had it worse. The whole handbag was taken in front of me, in my own office, by a so-called customer. But after I examined my situation that time, it could be ME at fault. I was being so careless like I could trust everyone. I just left my handbag opened on the floor where everyone could see and I was busy with the pc. Then it occurred to my mind, whether or not the guy came as a thief By Choice or By Chance? If your situation was anywhere giving a green light for A Normal Guy to turn into a thief just because of the chance that you put in front of him, maybe you should partly be blamed.

I remember asking my friend, “Let me ask you. If you jalan2 and jumpa duit, you ambil ka tidak?” She said, “Ui, kalau teda nama dan alamat,memang la ambil. Buduh la kalau nda ambil. But itu tidak sama dengan pencuri handphone tu.” I know, but the concept is the same. If you want to practice the righteous way, you would just walk away because it still doesn’t belong to you. Then I kasi cerita her pengalaman kawan2 sia yang pernah jumpa duit di jalanan. Ada yang jumpa RM10 and terus guna pegi makan and then sakit perut, sampaikan kepada kawan sia yang jumpa dekat RM500 and terus shopping barang2. Apa lagi bila kejadian tu semua berlaku masa masih sekolah. So memang mcm bulan jatuh ke riba ja bila “tertendang” duit di jalanan. Heheheehe. Pokoknya, biarlah RM1 ka, RM10 ka, asalkan duit, memang ringan ja tangan kita mau ambil. Jangankan barang2 yg mahal2 yg kita nda mampu mau beli. Apa lagi kalau masa sedang susah dan sesak. Memang ada saja desakan yang menjadikan kita si Pencuri or si Jahat yang mencari peluang. Pada pendapat sia, naluri manusia untuk memiliki sesuatu dengan mudah tu sesuatu yang quite predictable. Then bila kita mula bercakap pasal prinsip hidup dan nilai2 murni yang kita jadikan pegangan, barulah naluri itu dapat dihalang. Jadi sepa yang kuat moral dia, akan berjaya menepis cubaan2 untuk menjadi Si Jahat By Chance.

Then my friend mencelah dengan cakap, “Mama sia pernah ba jumpa RM10k di jalan. Dalam dompet lagi tu. Datin yg punya. Kau tau apa dia buat? Dia nda sentuh satu sen pun dan terus hantar pegi balai. Betul2 la mama sia tu oo. Buli tahan juga dia.” When I heard that, it was nothing new to me. I still remember the rare case of the taxi driver whose passenger left a suitcase stuff with RM30k cash. Yes, he actually sent the suitcase to the nearby police station and they found the owner who at the same time, made a police report on the lost suitcase (which was all his own mistake). Of course the guy was so pleased and overwhelmed by the good-heart of the taxi driver. I mean, in this world of greed and materialistic, we do actually have people like this still around? What I could remember from the newspaper report, I caught some interesting words coming from the taxi driver. Of course he was asked Why did he return the suitcase? Let me guess, you guys must think that he was just trying to make the headline and be known as ‘The Righteous One” and get instant popularity, or maybe he would preach about it was Sinful to take what belongs to others which sounds absurd (like people don’t know it and still spend years in jail for stealing. Hehehe). He actually said something quite simple. He said something like “Biasanya orang mesti akan ambil, tapi kali ni apa salahnya pulangkan saja barang yang dijumpa tu kepada pemiliknya.” You guys get it?

Like we heard TOO MUCH of bad things already. We already know all the bad rituals most people do. Oh, he found the money and took it and spent it. Like, Hey!! ENUFF!!! Like you wake up one morning and decide that you had enough of all that. When something bump into you, your crazy mind just pops out and -- Hey, why don’t we do it differently this time? Haahahahahahaahahahahahahaha. Isn’t it funny that Too Much Of Bad Things can eventually lead people to Good Things? I mean, you would never guess in a million years that Too Much Badness just makes you tired and then Oklah…now I decided to be good.

Oh well, How Cool Is That?

NOTE: Bahh…if adalah kelibat si pencuri2 or penyamun2 yang terbaca post sia ni…Are you sure you’re not tired yet ka? Hehehehe. Tired la baa… banyak pahala tu geng.*Lols. Mungkin masih ada harapan ba dunia ni kan guys? Hehehe. Bijakk…bijak…

Are You A Big-Hearted Donor?

Do you know how to measure the price of one’s sweat?

I’m not used to “giving price” to one’s sweat, that’s why I always ask, “How much do you ask for if I ask for your favour?” The main reason I ask is so I know how much the person is expecting so that I know how much I’m going to pay. It’s like a fair trade. But there are times when the people you ask for favour from are not bold enough to name the price. They tend to say, “It’s Up To You.” Or “Ikut kau saja”

Doii!! Punyalah sia nda suka bila orang cakap macam tu. I actually prefer it to be professional. I ask for your favour, I should pay a certain price that you think equivalent for the task that you do for me. So lately I needed a lot of work to be done. I needed a lot of people to do tasks for me. It’s even harder when your family members offer to do the job – and usually if you pay them, they will feel embarrassed to accept the money. Of course usually we prefer our family or relatives do the job for us thinking that we could save money because they won’t ask you as much as the what other people would. But if this is what you’re after, you might be wrong cos sometimes you could end up paying more, thinking that you have to be compassionate with your family members. “Jangan terlampau berkira sama sodara sendiri” orang cakap. Hehehe. Well, what do you say?

Tomorrow I’m going to ask for some “helping hands” to move my stuff to my new workplace. So I asked my mom just now, how much should I pay these guys?

My mom said, RM 50 sounds like a good amount. I asked, “Tidak terlampau banyak ka tu?” Cos all they need to do it lift the furniture downstairs, that’s all! Then my mom said, “Kira macam kau tulung2 juga ba dorang tu. Lain kali besar hati dorang mau tulung kalau ada apa2.” Then I was thinking – I thought that RM50 was too big for the task. But the same guys helped me before, I actually gave them RM 100 for helping me to move my stuff into another room and to disconnect the electrical appliances. “Sepa suruh kau kasi banyak sebelum ni,” said my mom. Then I went pening sekejap. For tomorrow, the job is much easier. I thought that it is a large amount for them, and it won’t be so much task for them because lifting the heavy furniture is just nothing to them. But I spare them compassions knowing that it would be a big amount for them and it would mean so much to them because money doesn't come easy. Like my mom always say, “Macam sedekah juga ba tu.” But then, look at me, am I in the position to be a big-hearted donor? Now that I will need to use a lot of money to arrange things since I move to a new workplace, is this the time to be generous? Hahaahahaha.

I agree with my mom that it would mean a lot for the people if I can be a little generous to them. I know that it’s gonna make them happy. I know that God will be happy too. But what I have in my mind is I should be in a very good financial situation before it’s proper for me to “donate”. Erks. But the question is, is it just an excuse? Will there be a time when we have Enough to share a little portion of what we have with others? Or are the people who use this excuse are just plain stingy? Like so kedekut like Haji Bakhil? *Lols

I remember having my brunch at a nearby restaurant. It has been many mornings that I eat there. Biasanya akan ada ni apek tua yang datang dari meja ke meja untuk minta derma. Macam sudah jadi satu jadual untuk dia yang dia akan datang restoren tu setiap jam sebab biasanya dalam tempoh tu memang orang yg duduk di meja tu sudah bertukar. Awal2 tu, memang sia tidak akan bagi. Sebab masa sia mula selalu datang makan di sana, sia sentiasa pikir my problems so memang sia rasa yang sia sendiri pun lebih banyak problem daripada tu apek. *Lols. So maybe kebanyakan orang di sana pun pikir mcm sia cos jarang yg mau bagi. That apek memang sedikit disabled dan dia memang sudah tua. So adakah orang2 di sana memang ada cukup2 duit untuk bayar makanan saja, or dorang rasa tu apek malas berusaha or dorang takut tu apek akan sentiasa minta dengan dorang bila dorang bagi sekali? Ahaa… macam2 sebab.

But until one morning. Hati sia hepi sikit. Sia tengok keliling. Sia cari itu apek. “Mana tu apek ah?” Hahaahahahaha. Then betul2 panjang umur dia. Nda lama tu, dia datang lagi dan mula lah pegi dari satu meja ke satu meja. Yang funnynya, oleh kerana mood sia bagus tu hari, sia memang mau derma sama ni apek. So lucu juga sia rasa cos biarpun dia sedang menuju ke arah meja sia, dari jauh lagi sia ready untuk bagi dia. Itu apek pun takajut tu kali sebab “uii…bersemangat jua ni urg mau kasi derma,” dalam hati tu apek. Hahaahahahahahahahaha.

Pernah juga dulu. Masa sia keluar lepak dengan kawan2 sia. Ada ni org pekak/bisu yang datang and jual that red bean yg ada tulisan, dorang minta RM5 untuk setiap tu. It’s like menderma and get a gift. Tapi ganjil pula kan sebab dorang yg tentukan jumlah derma tu. Heheehe. So masa tu sia terus kasi keluar duit and bagi. Dalam hati sia, “Dapat berkat juga ba tu.” But then, my friends mcm sembunyi expressi terkejut dorang. Maybe dorang pikir yg, ndakkanlah si [256] nda pandai pikir yg dorg tu semua lengkap anggota badan, cuma bisu dan pekak saja. Tapi kejanya cuma minta derma. Tangan dorang buli buat byk keja yang layak untuk dorang digaji. Then…the question is…

Adakah kejadian “memberi derma” tu adalah berpandukan kepada keikhlasan tangan yang memberi atau “kelayakan” orang yg menerima derma tu?

Bagi sia, biarpun sia tau org tu sangat susah dan layak menerima derma, tapi kalau sia sendiri pun rasa diri sia sendiri pun tidak berkemampuan untuk bagi apa2, still I don’t give. Tapi kalau rasa diri berkemampuan, biarpun orang tu bukannya susah sangat, tetap ringan juga tangan memberi. Pokoknya, memang bagus dapat share something dengan orang dan buat dorang senyum. Kalau rezeki kita murah, inilah masanya bila kita tidak payah berkira berapa yang kita mampu bagi dengan orang sebab kita nda tau bahawa apa yang kita bagi tu mungkin dapat menyelamatkan satu nyawa atau menyebabkan kebahagiaan dan kegembiraan. Mungkin kita tidak tau pun yang ada orang bersyukur dalam doa dorang “for sending me an angel” dan angel itu adalah kamu. Pikir punya pikir, like my mom said…itu harta bukan bawa pigi dunia sebelah. Kalau mampu, share2 la dengan mereka yang kurang bernasib baik :) Sepa tau, esok lusa, masa kamu pula :)

Note: Mudah-mudahan Tuhan kasi banyak rezeki boleh share2 dengan orang yg baik hati...and hopefully dorang get inspired by it and dorang pun akan share2 juga dengan orang lain bila dorang senang nanti :)

Sindrom Professor Serba Tau

Ini lagi satu perangai manusia yang buli bikin itu Pinatubo melatup bah. Hehehehe. Kau pikir semua perkara tu “kacang” punyalah! Then bila orang bagi penerangan, kau main angguk2 saja, as if kau mimang sudah kelulusan PHD dalam bidang ni. Apa kamurang mau, Geografi? Sains? History? Maths? Alaa…kacang baitu!

Pernah nampakkah Sindrom macam ni?

Remember the lady I told you guys about in the previous post? Dia cakap mau datang my house, ok fine, sia lukis pelan lagi. Macam pelan di belakang kad kawin tu sudah jadinya. Dengan checkpoint2 penting dan sangat jelas! Checkpoint yang sia bagi di pelan tu bukan main obvious dan “you can’t go wrong” sudah. Dia yang minta pelan tu, dan sia kasi la. Bukanpun sia yang susah2 mau buat kalau bukan dia yang minta. But gara2 itu attitude Sindrom Professor Serba Tau, dia main dengar nda dengar ja apa sia cakap. Dia cakap, "Ohh sana kah. Senang ba tu mau cari." Wah baguslah. Senang kerja sia kan? Sia siap bagitau nombor rumah lagi…dan sia cakap balik2 itu nombor rumah. “Ingat ahh itu nombor rumah.” Dia main angguk2 ja. I thought confirm la dia akan jumpa.

Kali tinguk…tadi tengahari dia call sia. Dia mau datang sudah ambil barang. Punyalah sia terkejut. Even itu first checkpoint yang sangat penting pun dia tidak tau. For example, kalau ada satu taman bunga, and cuma satu taman saja yang ada di kawasan tu, then kalau dia jumpa taman tu, dia mesti sangat senang jumpa lokasi rumah sia. Tapi rupanya, even the first check point pun dia langsung tidak tau menau. It’s like, “Where am I? I’m lost!” Sia jadi mcm tu patung ja di sana imagining macamana susahnya sia terangkan tu benda dengan dia hari tu dan dia asyik mengangguk macam tidak sabar suruh sia stop explain. Dan ini kawasan adalah kawasan dia, so sepatutnya memang teda masalah mau cari, MELAINKAN wujud itu Sindrom yang buat kau rasa 10 inci atas darat – “Hey I know everything ba. Apa lagi mau kasi explain panjang2?”

And then masa dia drive, dia call sia and kasi sound out my voice – Sia kena bagitau dia belok mana, ikut sebelah kiri ka kanan. Sia jadi pissed off masa tu. Sebab u ask me to ulang suara everything. And then itu tidak apa lagi. Macam dia pula buat suara pissed off sebab dia totally lost and tidak tau mana mau pigi. Tiba2 sia pula yang jadi “Si Tukang Kasi Keliru” sebab as if sia kasi instruction yang tidak betul. Semua checkpoints yang sia ulang2 sebut sebelum ni, semua jadi “benda baru” sama dia. Like dia “belum pernah dengar” pun tu benda2 semua. Now you tell me la sama ada si [256] ni capat panas ka atau mimang ada urg cuba mau percik2 air panas ke arah sia? *Lols

And I couldn’t help but raise my voice sebab I was really really pissed. Then last2, dia dapat juga jumpa. Tapi…Salah rumah pula!! Cos dia pigi ubah itu nombor. Let’s say sia bilang tu nombor 12, dia tukar tu nombor pigi nombor 2. Dia pigi buang lagi tu angka 1 sana. *Lols. Then I said, “Aiyooo, salah la itu nombor rumah” Then dia sempat lagi blame me di phone, “Tapi hari tu kau cakap Nombor 2 ba.” Adoiii, buli2 lagi ada masa mau blame sia.” I tell you lah, there’s NO WAY sia akan lupa my own nombor rumah. Tapi yg sia tau, kalau rasa diri tu Professor Serba Tau mungkin ada harapan lagi kasi twist-turn fact sebab mesti kepala otak Professor ni pact gila dengan information terkini kan? Heheehehe (/me buat muka geram versi pokemon)

Then bila finally sampai depan rumah sia, sia buat muka “sangat manis” sama dia. Sia lupakan sajalah macamana jangkitan Sindrom PST yg berlaku sama dia tu, cos yang penting dia sudah jumpa my house. Tapi…masa dia keluar tu. Dia membebel lagi. “Punya susah mau cari rumah kau ni. Nombor rumah daripada No.2 jadi No.12” – Nahh nahhh…sia tarik nafas ja dan tahan hati ja mau geleng2 kepala. Kalau sia ni naga, confirm ada keluar api sudah secara nda sengaja. *Lols. If sia ni Pikachu, confirm kana keluar karen sudah dari pipi sia wooo… Hahahaahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Tapi since dia ni jauh lagi senior dari sia, dia nampak juga my face yang kegeraman sama kepeningan yang dia bagi sia hari ni. I was really really PISSED, I tell you!!! Kalau dia anybody yang younger than me, confirm sudah kana teriak oleh suara doremon sia ni. Kalau Tidak Tau, CAKAP!!! Ask abis2 sampai u tau, baru u suruh orang stop explain. Jangan jadi itu bodoh sombong yang macam tau semua perkara!! Padahal satu apa pun tidak tau. Ini lah satu penyakit orang2 kita yang MALASSSS mau dengar, bongkak dan pikir diri tu sangatttt la tau semua perkara. Semua hal tu macam Peanut, or Piece of Cake saja!!! Haiyaaaaaaaaa!!! (Alaalalala…keluar karen laini kalau sia ni Pikachu baa Hahaahahahahahaha)

Ini Sindrom ahh…kalau kamurang pakai…Confirm ada satu hari kamurang kana api naga jadi-jadian. Paham? Sama ada kamurang kena tempias air liur boss kamu or lecturer kamu sebab kana teriak depan2 muka. Sebab I tell you guys one thing. Nobody expects u to know everything. Then sudah lah mcm tu, when it’s time untuk orang kasi u penerangan, guna itu telinga betul2!!! Kalau masih tidak paham, guna itu MULUT untuk bercakap. Bukan kamu main angguk2 ja dan refuse untuk dengar – as if kamurang tu si Professor Serba Tau, cos at the end of the day, memang nobody is good enough to be someone who Knows Everything so Sindrom Professor Serba Tau ni tidak ngam dipakai di planet ini. Ada paham kaa???

Haiyaa!!!!

/me :PPPPPPPPPPPPPP

Moral of the story: If you don't hear it the first time, ask someone to repeat it the second time, "Sorry I can't hear you" or "Sorry I don't understand". Cos kalau terkena itu sindrom, silap2 orang kena ulang tu benda lebih dari 2 kali gara2 sikap bongkak yang kununnya diri tu sudah tau semua benda. Bila kana suruh buat, apa pun tidak tau. Wait until kamu sendiri kena macam ni oleh orang lain baru u tau tinggi rendahnya itu langit. Tinguk kalau itu naga jadi-jadian buli keluar api ka inda. (Hahahaahahahahahahahah)

"The Dirty Pants"

I remember when I was much younger, accidentally kicking something that made me slip to the floor could be a very embarrassing experience. I would blush and hide myself – surviving that humiliation. Ouch? How terrifying could it be to actually slip on the floor and knock yourself down?

I hope I don't have to answer why I'm into high-heels, but I'm into those and it's not anything abnormal. Do I have the time to worry about what I wear on my feet, Anymore? I mean, the girls are sometimes too fussy over the petty things like – Oh, I'm wearing a pink dress, I must find a pair of cute heels with pink ribbons. Yeah, but maybe those days are going to be over someday too… for them, for anybody for that matter. Well, I realize that I'm not anymore into "the best matching" of what I wear on my body and what on my feet. I mean, is it even worth it to fuss over small matters? Or was it just me?

With serious matters that we have in mind now, I'm sure that we gradually letting go one by one the matters that were once bothering us. Yeah, finally we can tell which one is petty and with one is important. More and more responsibilities and commitments are claiming rights over our mind. Suddenly, we don't care so much about the little things anymore. I will tell you this experience of "The Dirty Pants".

I went out from a supermarket and I was on my way to the opposite road. I remember that I had to walk on a bumpy, stony undone road, which clearly needs extra alert especially for someone like me who cannot go without my high-heels. But I think that the stony road was just nothing. Why would I care that much, it's just a bumpy road that I had to walk a few steps and that's about it," as my mind would say. My hands were busy looking for something in my handbag, I was looking for my handphone, about to call my mom. It happens a lot when I could not find a freaking anything in my handphone whenever I need it! Omigawd! So I was re-acting the normal view of digging into my handbag looking for a hidden treasure that is nowhere to be found. Dammit. I needed to make that call to tell my mom that I was done shopping. And as I was on it, my feet haven't stopped walking, and did I say I care about the bumpy small road? *Lols. My heels actually slipped while I was stepping on a stone or maybe anything I didn't have time to examine, but enough to make me lose my balance and landed my knee on the ground. Wearing the pants that are very close to white, the knock down caused some dirt on my pants and it could clearly be seen in that colour. You guys know what I did? My hands kept digging into my handbag and it didn't change a little even when after the slipping incident taken place. A guy who was sitting not far from there saw it and he made that look, "Omigawddd!" Yeah, something like that. If he's allowed to say more, he might say, "Why didn't you be a little more careful?" Hehehe. Oh well, his face explained it all. *Lols.

That looks in his face tells me that he thought it was a terrible incident for someone to slip on that bumpy road and got her pants dirtied. I just got up and turned my face to him and smile, "Hahaha, Ouch! Sorry that it happened." I glanced very quickly to my pants and saw the dirt on the knee. "Nevermind." The guy, still with that panicked looks, told me, "See your pants got dirty". I smiled at him and said, "Don't worry about my pants." And then I just kept looking for my handphone and finally found it and made that call. Without even care to wipe the dirt from my pants. I just walked and managed to cover it with the jacket that I was holding. The view of the man made me smiled. He took it more seriously that I did. It was my pants who got dirt on, not his. It was me who slipped, not him. But it's about how you see things, you get me?

To me, it's just a small matter. I slipped, my pants got dirty, so what? I think my detergent can take care of that dirt. It will be clean again the next time I wear it. We have more serious matters in hands, remember? But actually, I was surprised too with myself. Because you guys should know that I do care about the small things. But this incident tells me that I have evolved to something else too. I don't believe that I go through day by day without taking something and put it to heart. I don't believe that I survive difficulties without learning something. I don't believe seeing life in its truer form, as I age, don't turn me into a better person. And that dirty pants incident tells me that I can't be the same person I was 5 years ago. This is the new me. I can stop and still care about the teddybear that got abused by the tailors next door but I can't spend another hour grieving on what's gonna happen on the teddybear if the abuse continues. (Hahahaahahahahahahahahahahaha Kidding guys.)

Let's worry on more serious stuff, ok guys? So dirty pants? Say Bring it on, bebeh. *Lols

The Burden Of HiGH TasTE

Is [256] a High-Taste person? Interesting question. I have one guy friend who thought I was some High-class lady, who wears expensive things. Yup, he told me that. I forgot to deny it because he’s wrong. I wear what looks nice on me. They can be cheap, but when something looks nice on you, sometimes it can look expensive. I told you guys a story before that I wore this average pair of un-branded jeans and this friend of mine, who belongs to that “Victims of brands” category, thought I was wearing a pair of expensive Levis jeans? The secret is the good cutting, and nice blue colour and how you pair it with a shirt that make the jeans even more appealing. I want to ask these 2 questions.

1. Isn’t it being High in Taste is for people to see that you look Better than those who have taste not as high as you? What if you spend so much and still don’t look as good as other people who spend very little?

2. Or Is it just for Personal satisfaction that you are happy if you’re wearing a very expensive socks even if nobody knows it? I mean, people might think you are wearing the same Cheap socks like them, Nobody appreciates that you spend so much money on your socks, but as long as you know that you’re spending so much on the socks, you feel happy, and that’s about it? Is that true?

I mean, Is High Taste is dedicated for your own satisfaction or Is it just for the intention of Showing Off?

I had a long chat with a lady yesterday. She’s one sophisticated lady. How she dressed, her hairstyle and even her handbag, Enough for me to see that She’s very high in taste. But she can’t run away from economic slowdown from last year so it affects her spending. She used to drive a BMW car and she told me she has to give away the car because she couldn’t stand the maintenance that cost her up to RM20k. Okay fine. Because she didn’t foresee that she has to give away the BMW, she has given her Honda Jazz to her brother so she’s left with nothing. She has to borrow Malaysia-made cars belong to her other family members and she said, Damn…driving Malaysia-made cars are really bothersome. She complained that she’s considered in dangerous financial level because the income that she makes is only enough to cover the normal monthly spending. “I couldn’t stand keeping that Beamer anymore. I don’t mind about the monthly installment that cost me more than RM2k, but it’s the maintenance that is really sucking my blood.” Fine, that’s wise to think that way. Now she’s thinking of buying a new car. What car? She said to me, “Anything but Malaysia cars.” Ouch!

People know that she used to drive a Beamer before, what…”Can they accept seeing me driving a Viva now?” It’s more than just Malaysia cars suck. It’s more than that. It’s about Status. Even when people noticed that the Beamer is nowhere to be seen, her neighbours been asking, “Eh, where’s your BM?” She answered, “I want to look for a better car, so I sell the car.” That’s what she said. She told me she had to say something like that because she doesn’t want these people “clapping hands” to see her downfall. Ouch? Yes, that’s how far she took that matter. She might be almost broke and all, but this is about Saving Face. As she was talking, I nodded because I understand her situation. Speaking of a new car, I suggest her a few imported cars like Toyota Vios, Altis that are becoming quite common here – she said, those are quite cheap. I’m thinking of another Honda. If I used to pay RM2k for the installment before, RM1k shouldn’t sound too much for me. But I said, “But you also have to consider the maintenance and parts.” She said, “Yes, but it can never get more than BMW. If Malaysia cars, the service cost is RM50, and for imported cars like Honda, it’RM300, still far cheaper than RM20 k right?” (Hahahahaahahahahahaha…Suddenly something is tickling me.)

Wowww…isn’t that TIRING? You have to go extra mile trying to decide what’s best to buy because it’s more than just What’s economical, and What’s cute, and What’s comfortable – suddenly all the other issues come out to the surface. It’s not even what is Cheap and reasonable. It’s about – what’s maximum she can get with what she is making monthly. I mean, to me, that’s Very Tiresome!!

This lady is totally my opposite. I’m nothing like her. I don’t worry about what people think whether or not my purse is thick. In most cases, I actually prefer people think that I am as ordinary as possible. I mean, I DON’T CARE!! I only care about my own heart. If I’m happy, you can’t exchange it with even if you have a Lamborghini. So what? I think that if you wear flashy expensive things, you will only draw so much attention, and some people enjoy that kind of attention. As for me, I DON’T. I repeat, I DON’T. I just want to have a happy and peaceful life, being able to do what I like and maybe make my loved ones happy with what I can offer– and just enjoy life in its most original form. This post makes me thinking that sometimes we have to look at other people to be even grateful with ourselves.

Anyway, I don’t think to be high in taste is their fault, however, I am just grateful that I am not one of them :)

"Operasi Gold-Digging"

Perempuan2 yang suka mengikis harta ni dipanggil Gold-digger kan? Ahaa…then activity pengikisan harta tu bolehlah digelar sebagai Operasi Gold-Digging… Hehehehe. Suka ati dia ja buat nama operasi. *Lols

Dengar cerita2 artis2 kawin VIP ni…macam satu trend pula. Entah dorang sempat ka bercinta dan menyelami hati budi masing2. Or just “Sia kasi kau begitu begini…Kau sanggup jadi bini sia kah?”

Sia mau sebut nama pun, sia nda sampai hati pula mau sebar gossip yang memang betul. That artis kawin diam2 dengan Datuk, and tup tap…mau cerai sudah. Sampat la juga dia ada rumah ½ juta di KL biarpun teda anak. Nah, nda berbaloikah? Kawin paling2 lama pun setahun dua, and then, bila cerai, umur masih muda, teda anak, ada duit, ada harta… Then what? Ahaa…Of course sekarang dia main petik jari saja mau lelaki muda mana satu dia mau…Di zaman sekarang yang ramai lelaki yg suka tumpang duit perempuan, memang lagilah buat janda2 muda yang kaya-raya ni macam Pisang goreng Panas!

Memang mudah untuk kita judge dorang ni. Mata duitan lah, pisau cukur lah, materialistic la…Memang mudah mau mengecam dorang ni dengan macam2 tuduhan. Sia sendiri pun kadang2 cakap lepas juga dengan perangai dorang ni. Dan kalau sia layan lagi laser mulut sia ni…sia cakap…Can’t you guys see it?

IT’S NOTHING BUT A STRATEGY ba!!

You pok satu jerung yang banyak duit, make him marry you, and entitled you to get harta sekian2, make sure at least ada satu rumah, satu kereta mewah di bawah nama you. Cash, and then lain2 asset yang u boleh buat dia taruh di bawah your name. You buat la apa yang boleh sementara itu jerung sedang khusyuk jatuh cinta sama kau. Then after semua sudah secure…you pun mula la cari pasal…

U cakap la dia tu jarang balik rumah cos usually ni jerung2 ni semua sudah berumur, ada bini lain. Lain lagi urusan kerja dia yang ke sana ke mari. Lain lagi dia pok mau cari markas baru. Pok yang gebu2. Inda dapat jadi bini pun, mistress pun jadilah. Yang penting, nikmat dunia jangan disia-siakan.

So si gold-getter ni apa lagi. Mula sudah buat hal Dia cakaplah dia rasa dia tidak dicintai la, diabaikan lah, Selalu ditinggal-tinggalkan lah…or buat la apa2 isu yang menyebabkan itu lelaki pikir dia memang tidak dapat menunaikan tanggungjawab dia sebagai husband. Buat la drama air mata sikit – make the guy rasa so guilty and bagi lagi harta2 yang boleh dibagi. And bila u rasa sudah cukup, then mula la perbesarkan lagi hal2 yang kecil. Cakap la yang you tu masih muda. Dia nda dapat berikan u nafkah batin yang sepatutnya. Then…sudah banyak sandiwara macam tu, tertekan la si lelaki ni. Kalau u berani, u minta cerai la. Kalau u tidak berani, u tunggu dia jatuhkan talak. Heheheheehhehee.

[256] <-- besinar2 sudah tanduk dia menghasut ni urg ni (HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

Nahh…kalau inilah modus operandi perempuan2 ini…apa kita mau panggil ni? Operasi apa ni? Bukan Operasi Gold Digging ka that? At the end of the day, sia mau sentuh satu hal. Memang senang kita kutuk dorang ni, tapi dari segi Strategy of Survival- dorang ni lah yang pakai otak. Mau main bersih di dunia kotor, buli pakai lagi kah? What they do is ikut trend. Kalau itu katam sudah jalan miring, u mau jadi katam yang jalan lurus buat apa? Bagus lagi u jadi pokemon la like that… (Hahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha)

[256] <--- tulung pasik mulut dia ni sebab laser betul. *Lols.

Sia tulis this post bukan untuk cuba mengutuk golongan materialistic ni, but try to see sisi kehidupan yang selalu jadi bahan kutukan. Don’t worry, sia pun pernah jadi macam kamu juga. Only recently I took my time and fikir betul2. Sia ingat apa yang sia pernah tulis.

“A GOOD LIFE IS NOT A FLUKE"

Kita tau bahawa jadi baik dan lurus tu adalah apa yang BAIK untuk dibuat. Tapi kalau mau cakap pasal kehidupan dunia ni, kadang2 value kau bukan dilihat daripada kebaikan hati kau. If you are penniless, dorang tidak tengok pun dengan u. Pedih memang pedih. Tapi kita mau object pun, memang ini lah yang berlaku. So these ladies hanya play along saja. Ada kesempatan, dorang akan ambil. Tapi buat semua org ada kesempatan yang dorang ada. Bukan semua perempuan ada peluang mau jerat tu jerung2 besar yang ada banyak harta cukup untuk kasi kemewahan sama berapa banyak perempuan yang dorang berkenan. So, kalau berada dalam posisi ini, maybe apa yang gold-diggers ni buat hanyalah menggunakan kesempatan yang ada dan gunakan akal.

My bestfriend told me. “I’m not Materialistic, I am just Realistic”. Which is true right? Everything is about money. I mean, Almost Everything. Sia pernah tengok this talkshow artist2 bercakap pasal hal ni – masa tu sia terkejut sebab terang2 menegakkan harta dan kemewahan. I still remember Azhar Sulaiman bagi pendapat dia, “It’s better that you cry in a Mercedes, than in a Kancil” That means, you mau cinta tu cinta juga, tapi you kena consider the possibilities. Daripada u pok itu lelaki2 yang teda duit, bagus u pok yang boleh bagi u kesenangan. If dia mau curang, dia lari pun, hati u sakit camana pun but you bukan kena tinggal lugai2. At least it is still BETTER than crying dengan tangan kosong.

Sia tulis post ni supaya sia sendiri pun tidak kasi penat2 kepala otak sia mau kutuk2 perempuan yg kejar kemewahan dan menggunakan strategi yang sia tulis tadi tu. Dorang yg buat begitu, dorang yang kaya dan mewah. Hati dorang gembira ka tidak, itu kita pun tidak tau. Tapi daripada hati tidak gembira, and then miskin lagi…lagilah teruk kan. Hehehe. At least if dorang ada anak, tidak la lari2 di jalanan, naik turun tangga, teriak2 macam teda mama bapa. At least orang2 yang berkaitan dengan dia pun dapat kebaikan daripada “kelicikan” dia tu. Sepa tau, dorang cuma perlu licik “sekali” ja, then dorang dapat hidup senang sampai hujung nyawa.

KESIMPULAN: Masing2 cari bahagia dengan cara masing2. Cukup la tidak menyusahkan hidup orang lain kan :) Gold-digging pun, at least merasa jua hidup kaya. Yang kita2 ni pula, jangan pula asyik mau mencari silap, sedangkan hidup sendiri melarat. Pikir2 kan la bilang si anu…ntah sepa tu. Lupa sudah sia. *Lols

The Mysterious Phone Call

Masa sia sedang working, suddenly my phone rang dengan kuatnya. So sia pi ambil the phone and saw the name on the screen. Takajut sia ooo!!

Sebab nama tu adalah nama sia sendiri!!! I mean, calling from the other number! HOW Could It Be???

What do you think?

My eyes opened tengok tu screen. My mind rushed – Omigawd, what is happening now? How the heck I could call my other number when my hands were not even on the other phone. I didn’t even know where I put the other phone. Mataiiiiiiiiii!!! Kenapa niii?? Apa sedang berlaku ni??

Mata sia mencari di mana tu phone sia satu lagi. SEPA TEKAN ITU PHONE???? Alalalalaalalalalalalalalalala. Suddenly ini jadi satu cerita mystery yang betul2 membuatkan sia panic.

Who press my other phone and call my other number??? Who??? Whooo?????

You guys imagine la muka sia begitu panic tu masa. Then when I gained my composure and started to think clearly… I thought, “My goodness, someone stole my other phone???” Who stole it?? Who?? How could one of my customers actually snatched the phone away and dare to call me? What, does the person want to tell me, I Have Your Other Phone, HA HA HA? Like that kah? Mataii laaaa…. Abis lah ni kali.

I looked around and tengok my barang bersepah… Mungkinkah my other phone berada di dalam kesemakan itu? Jika ya, sepa yang tekan itu phone??? Else, mungkinkah betul phone sia tu sudah dicuri and the thief was making a prank call to threaten me or what? Jawapan kedua itu sebenarnya lebih logic di pikiran sia. Cos kalau la itu phone tidak dicuri dan berada di dalam kesemakan itu, sia yakin mana2 species tikus pun nda mampu untuk tekan tu phone dan siap tekan nombor my other phone yang sia tidak save pun di phone yg hilang tu. Ini betul2 satu cerita mystery ba. Panic eh!! Indakan antu pula??? Alamakk…antu ada ka di siang hari? Mataiiiii….

So what do you think? Should I pick up the phone? Macamana kalau sia pick up ada satu suara mengilai di telefon tu? Macamana kalau sia pick up ada satu suara penyangak yang minta wang tebusan kalau sia mau balik telefon tu? Indakah pingsan sia tu kalau tiba2 macam tu kan? That’s why la sia tinguk ja that phone and tidak tekan any button. Last2 sia tekan tu cancel button so it stops ringing.

Then sebelum sia cuba menyelesaikan mystery ini…sia mencari sesuatu. Mata sia tengok keliling…atas bawah, kiri kanan…Di mana sudah benda itu? Benda yang sia cari tu adalah my handbag! Cari punya cari…akhirnya jumpa! Handbag tu di bawah kaki sia! Sia cepat2 tengok pegi dalam and cari something. I FOUND IT!!!! MY other HANDPHONE!!!!!!!

Sia cepat2 ambil tu phone and tengok. Yes…Memang betul that phone baru saja dial my number. That’s still scary. Can u explain that???

Daripada satu kerutan di kening sia, akhirnya bertukar kepada satu ekspresi yg sangat lega.

What?? A mystery solved? Just like that?? Gotta be kidding me!

After a thorough investigation, this is the outcome.

1. Memang betul sia teda save my number di phone yang buat panggilan mystery tu. But earlier that day, sia ada kehilangan phone yang satu tu di bawah timbunan kertas. So I used that 2nd phone untuk detect mana phone yang satu lagi tu. That’s why sia sudah dial the number on that 2nd phone dan nombor tu ada terekod dalam Dialled Numbers.

2. I just put the phone in the handbag di bawah kaki sia yang hyper mcm tuannya juga. Oleh kerana that 2nd phone bukan autolock, and then, I accidentally kicked the handbag yang ngam2 make the 2nd phone ring number yang paling last sia dial, iaitu number my 1st phone. That Explained the mysterious phone call!!!!

Kurang Asam punya [256]. Kin panic ja kau nii ooo. Eiiiiiiii!!!!

Oleh itu, alasan ini juga la yang sia akan berikan kepada Jojon yg numbernya beberapa kali sudah sia silap dail. Yang baru2 tu, sia telah mengejutkan Jojon sebab dia ngam2 bertapa di toilet. Apa kena si litol sista ni, dalam pikiran si Jojon tu. Tapi sia nda paham apa perasaan si Jojon tu masa, sampailah terkena batang idung sia sendiri hari ni. Iaitu akhirnya phone sia tu call number phone sia yang satu lagi. Padannnn la dengan muka sia kan guys….

Kesimpulan kepada cerita ini adalah…Mimang inilah kejadiannya kalau telampau banyak pikiran. Benda yang depan mata pun tidak kenampakan dan jadilah kejadian2 yang mystery dan mem-panic-kan itu. Jadi ini satu lesson supaya lebih alert dan jangan sembarangan taruh barang. Nda pasal2 jadi satu cerita mystery yang kin panic, rupanya cuma kaki hyper tu yang tendang that phone.

HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAH

(tu ketawa adalah untuk ganti semua ketawa yang sia tahan selama menulis post ni. Sekian terima kasih. Hehehehehehehehehhehe)

:PPPP Hahahahaahahahahha Have A Cheerful Day Everyone! :))))

Unanswered SMS. Why?

I have this habit recently. Last Christmas, when the SMS started to come in wishing Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, I didn't feel like replying them. Strange enuff. I remember years ago being the person who was so excited composing a nice SMS so I could forward to all my friends. I remember that my intention was very good. I really wanted to wish them something nice for the special season. I remember that some of my goodfriends didn't reply. Ouch? What, they couldn't be that rude, right?

Who would have guessed that I finally become something like them. I didn't feel like replying all the SMS. Yes, I did reply, but only from 1 or 2 most closest people to me. I was trying to find the reason why I didn't feel like typing a reply just to say thanks and return them the same warm wishes. I mean, there's no way [256] could be that rude and heartless. But why I felt like I didn't do much wrong with not replying their SMS?

If you guys notice, most of the SMS people send on Christmas and New Year seasons are Forwarded SMS. Those SMS don't even have the name of the receiver or sender in it. They are simply being forwarded. I have this funny feeling that people received the SMS and thought of "sharing" it with others and simply forwarded it to all the people on the list where I happened to be in. They might be thinking that, hey why not share this, who knows they want to share it with someone else. Hahaahahahaahaha.

So, maybe because I thought so, I didn't care much about replying. Unless I know that I'm special to the people who sent me greeting, then I'll reply. I would appreciate it if the greeting to have my name as a receiver and the name of the sender. So I can feel that this SMS is meant for me. I mean, if I were right about them just forwarding the SMS without much thought, they would not care if they didn't receive a reply. Well, I know that's kinda rude. But it could make some sense. Now you see how time changes you, right? You tend to see things differently from the way you used to look at them.

But if you ask me, Yes, I am in good terms with the people even if I don't reply their SMS. Something funny happened yesterday. Who would have guessed that some people thought that I was having grudge against them for not replying? Hahaahahahahahaaha. It was among the funniest thoughts that could occur to me. If you guys know what's inside my mind, I have far more important things that are bothering my mind. I didn't have time to have, what do you call that again? A Grudge? (hehehehe) against anyone for the smallest matter. Let's say, if a customer didn't call me for months, do you think it's enough for me to feel bad about the person? Hell NO! Why should I? I have a lot of other things to think about. I don't keep myself busy why a customer doesn't call me back after so long? I mean, if A Boyfriend, yes I would be wondering why, but a customer? Since when that a customer is assigned to have that responsibility to report him/herself in? Hahaahahahahahahhaa. Funny right?

I have one customer like this. She can't handle it if I don't pick up her call or answer her SMS. The last time when she rang and I didn't pick up, it was only 1 call that I missed. And already she thought I was purposely not picking up her call. So she called using the office phone and then only I picked up. She thought that her theory was almost right because I suddenly picked up when an unknown office number appeared on the screen. Hahaahahahaha. The truth is, I didn't hear the sound of the phone ringing and I only saw the miscall record. I was too busy doing my things at the office. Did she think that all I did was sit there and look at the phone screen and let it ring when a person I dislike rang the phone? Oh come onnn!!! Hahahaahahhaa

It happened again during the New Year. She forwarded me a Merry Christmas wish, I replied it late. But still, I replied. Because I knew she always likes to make theories on whyI didn't reply. *giggles. And then, for the New Year, she SMS me on the afternoon of 1st January, which was a little too late for normal New Year greeting, but I didn't get to reply her. So a day after, which was yesterday, she came to my office without telling me first. "Ouch? Why did you inform me you are coming?" Can you guys believe that she wanted to come just to "make peace" with me? Hahahahaahahahahaha.

She did it again. After having long talks with me about the fun things, she finally handed me a box of chocolate when she was about to leave. I was funny because I knew it was about the Unanswered SMS. I forgot to tell you guys the other day when I didn't pick up her call and only picked up when she used an unknown office number, she actually came to my workplace, less than an hour and gave me pastries. I felt so funny inside. Heheheehehehehehehehehe.

I understand that she is so nice and she wants to keep good relationship with the people that she's comfortable with. She is one nice lady. But if she continues being this way, it will only do her more harm than good. If I do a study case on this, I am one example that if she thought that simply by an Unaswered call or SMS means that the person is having grudge against you, It's NOT always true.

From this, I finally understand to always take it easy on WHY sometimes people don't answer my SMS. Even my bestfriend, sometimes she only answers me a day after I sent an SMS. Sometimes she doesn't answer at all. I understand because she is very busy. I know because I finally know how it feels to be as busy as her. You open an SMS and you smile but you thought you want to reply it after you deal with something more urgent, but what happens is, you forgot to get back to the SMS. Or even a miscall.

Well, it's 2010 now. Sometimes we have to change our ways and the way we look at things to make this life less complicated. If we want to get mad because someone forgot to reply the SMS, before we know, our lives in 2010 would be full of worries, anxiety, suspicion, hard feelings and so on. I mean, at least, keep the small things small. We have better things to do. We just forgive them if they forgot, don't jump into conclusions especially when you don't do anything wrong. People will appreciate you even if you are not an angel. And that doesn't change even if they forget to answer your SMS or return your call. Maybe they are just too busy. Loosen up people. It's time for more serious matters okay? :)

Muahsss... *giggles

Should I Wear That Cap Again?

Kemarin…si [256] buat hal. Hahahahaahahahaha. Sia janji with a friend to go KFC, so sia kena keluar ofis kejap. But sia a bit shy dengan my new hair. Hehehehehehe. So sia nampak tu cap yang bergantung, then I pakai la.

Nda pernah2 ba si [256] pakai cap. Tiba2 kemarin pandai pakai cap. Dorang pikir sia saja mau tukar angin mau dekat2 Xmas ni. Padahal manada. Sia punya perasaan sakit jiwa terhadap rambut sia tu terlalu kuat sampaikan sia rasa if orang rasa keganjilan tengok sia pakai cap tu, cuma perkara kecil ja. Heheheheheehehehe. I feel so kejanggalan also ba. Macam kin rimas tul pakai tu cap. *Lols.

Then sia jalan kan, terjumpa tu staff2 yang sedang berbual. Then I smiled la sama dorang. One of them said, “Wahh cantik kamu hari ni.” Then I senyum kambing only. Sia nda peduli apa dorang cakap. Dorang puji ikhlas ka, dorang nda ikhlas ka…sia tul2 nda peduli. Dorang tidak tau…I was trying to cover my hair. Hahahahahahahaha. So anything other than orang cakap pasal my hair, still sounds good to my ears. Or maybe dorang actually puji my hair yang cuba sia tapuk tu. Kita sama2 nda tau. Hehehehehe.

Then…masa sia jalan tu, tiba2 one of my bros called me. Aiks…heran sia. Rupanya dia ternampak sia dari jauh so dia pikir sia mau join dorang jalan. Duii… sempat2 lagi ba sia kedapatan in that cap. Punya kelucuan sia. Senyum2 ja my bro tinguk penampilan sia yang lain sikit masa tu. Hehehehehehehehe. Mimang dia hairan bin ajaib juga tu ooo. Nda pernah2 pakai cap ni baa… Hahahahaahahahahaha. Sia tahan hati ja. I told them sia nda mau join cos I want to meet my friend di seberang jalan.

Then dari jauh lagi I saw my friend, I made that signal, pointing at my cap and laughed. I know dia hairan, so I awal2 kasitau yang, “I know u hairan” *Lols. “Uiks…tiba2 pakai cap ahh ni hari?” Heheheheehheehehehhehehe.

Then sia cakap. “My hair ba!!!” Dia cakap, “Why your hair?” I said, “Like Alien!!” Hahahaahahahahahahahahahaa

Then sampai di tempat keja sia, kami duduk and I opened the cap. Cuba tinguk betul2 ba my hair, macam alien ka?” Hahahahaahahhahaha. Dia tinguk betul2 and buat that face… “No laa!! Manada oo.” “True bah?” Nahhh…So, apa macam?

Should I wear that cap again? Hehehehehehe.

I don’t need your answer. Cos I WILL wear that cap again. I have to. Hehehehehe. It doesn’t matter if my friend said my hair doesn’t look like alien, but I still feel like that. Hehehehehehehe.

NOTE: “Yang kau pi buat rambut mcm alien tu apa pasal?”Soalan Baguss!!!…sia nda mau jawab tu. Give me that freaking cap!!!! (Hahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha) P/S- To all the Christians, Happy Christmas Eve...Don't forget to go sembayang tonite ahh...muahsss all...Wish semua happy2 dan baik2 saja k... :))

One Is Better Than Two

If you have one car, you know you will take care of it with all your heart. But after that, you have another car, do you still think you will love and care for your first car the same? Aha!! DON’T FREAKING LIE to me with saying Yes cos the answer is definitely No!!

I have asked this to my ex long before and we almost argued because he claimed that Yes, he would love all this cars. Easier said than done. But my point is, whether or not he still loves and care for the first car when he has another one to take care of? Of course, it’s humane to be greedy. My ex claimed he would still love all his cars. Of course he would. Cos having more than one cars actually feeding the greed in having more materials. But the point is, whether or not he still loves every car the same? It’s impossible. Usually he will have one favourite and doesn’t care much about the rest. That is a Wastage of affection, don’t you think?

I tell you why I think so. Because when I have one thing that I like so much, I will not divide my attention. So I can experience the real feeling of giving the best attention and care towards it. When I have another one, which could be better, I couldn’t help but like the new one better. And even if I know I’m losing touch with the first one, I couldn’t help it. I would just give in though there’s a little regret in my heart that “I wish I could love them all the same”. You get my point?

It’s no use to curse why you have to be that way because it’s a human nature, but you can do something so that it won’t steal something from you. To me, I prefer to give everything to one thing and not give anything to the second and after that. Because not only that I can give my one and only, the best I can offer, but I also feel that it’s the best it should be. I can experience and savour it so much because my focus is only on one thing. When I start to have another and then another, that feeling of “sticking to one” is gone. You start to feel disoriented and lose your focus. It’s whether you can still love all of them just so-so, or you would not love any of them at all. It’s because you can’t focus which to love more or less.

Of course it’s good to have more. But in this case where I question about whether or not you can love each of them fair and square, that one I really doubt. So you apply this in other aspect of your life too. Sometimes you become that “one thing”, sometimes you become that “second thing” that steal the attention from the first, and sometimes you become the person who experiences that you can’t never love two things the same.

It applies in anything especially when the “thing” involved is some being who has feelings. When the thing knows how to demand for attention but you fail to give it just because you have other things to divide your attention. Maybe you will understand if you become that Thing that has to suffer from a divided attention just because someone is a little greedy and thinks that he/she can still love 2 things the same.

That's why I said...

Sometimes...

1 is really better than 2 :)

The Demanding Girlfriend

I remember talking to my bestfriend when she was caught in triangle love between two men. One man was a special boyfriend and the other one was an old classmate who always had a crush on her. My friend was in love with her boyfriend, and the other guyfriend was showing a lot of affection to my friend since college years. My friend knew that the guyfriend still put hopes on her.

My friend was one example of a very demanding girlfriend, I must say. It was actually the first time that I heard a lady speaks of how firmly she wanted to be treated as a special girlfriend. Because the boyfriend was working in Peninsular, my friend was always accompanied by the guyfriend who would do anything to win her heart. I could say that my friend was starting to have “a second thought” especially when the boyfriend didn’t care much about special occasions. The other guy was gradually winning her attention.

I remember hearing her commenting on her situation. I remember feeling a bit suspicious about my friend’s stand. I mean, her boyfriend might not be there all the way, but since he was the boyfriend, she shouldn’t just simply punish him for that. It shouldn’t be an easy excuse for my friend to just change her heart.

“I don’t know what’s with him. Even if he’s far, he must at least send me a flower or maybe fly here to surprise me – Do Anything just as long as he does something to show me that he cares. He Must Keep Me Excited if he wants me to stay. He cannot stop “trying” when he’s already my boyfriend. He must still do something to let me know that I’m special”

Then I thought, “Wow…that’s very demanding!”

My friend said that when she told that to the boyfriend, the boyfriend answered, “Don’t hope for special treatments from me. I’m not good with that.”

Guess what? She wasn’t kidding. She really dumped her boyfriend not long after for the old classmate who could provide her with all the “excitements” that she wanted. Finally she didn’t mind picking “an easy catch” to a big jaws…just as long as the guy is willing to put extra effort to show her that he cares.

Another female friend spoke to me. She was another case. She has boyfriends all over the place. I tell you, I think I should learn from them. *Lols. She told me, she has a condition for every guy who wants to be her boyfriend. “He MUST call or sms me EVERYDAY.” If he misses a day or two with an excuse, I would forgive. But if it reaches one week without call or sms, automatically he’s not my boyfriend anymore.”

Then again, I was, “Ahh? Ouch!”

Oh well, That’s Very Demanding. Hahaahahaha Most of these ladies who are fit to be called A Demanding Girlfriend are usually those who are “the ladies on demand” where at least 2 men are craving for their love. So no wonder they become that demanding right?

Or else…maybe we don’t need to be popular to be demanding. Maybe this is exactly what we should do, don’t you think so?

To the men…don’t you think we, as the most special lady in your life, should demand for a special treatment from you? Don’t you think when you are late you should explain to us why? Don’t you think you should feel guilty when you don’t return our call or reply our sms? Don’t you think you should soft-talk us when there’s something that you want to speak to us, even if it’s the simplest matter of “don’t wear that dress in public”? Don’t you think we deserve more respect, that you can’t simply raise your voice and accuse us doing something we don’t do? I mean, the way you do things to other people, don’t you think we deserve to be treated slightly better? If we sulk or pout, don’t you think you should do something to coax us and make us smile again and tell us that everything is not as bad as we thought? Isn’t being your special girlfriend is an enough reason to demand for all that?

Then after this, hopefully you don’t complain to us why we ask for too much. As a matter of fact, I don’t think we ask for too much. We deserve to be asking it all to begin with. If we can’t even ask to be treated more special than normal, what’s the point of being the most special lady in your life?

Fair enough? *giggles.

Note: Treat Your Girlfriend Good, Ok?