Love Triangle is a situation when a normal relationship that should have only 2 persons in it, receives an addition of a 3rd person. The first object is the person at the first point of the angle, which then connects to 2 points at different direction that form another 2 angles and that makes it a 3-angle (Triangle). Since the female population outnumbers the male population, the 2 angles are usually girls. That means, the dilemma is usually between 1 guy and 2 girls. Let me elaborate a bit on characters of each point.
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Point 1 (Guy):
He has a special someone, who is Girl A. He lays eyes on a Girl B later on. There are 2 types of category he could belong to.
Type I : He is just the player type. He has Girl A and he still looks for someone else who is as good or more attractive than Girl A so that’s how he drags Girl B in the picture. He wants them both.
Type II: Circumstances put him in a situation where he is closer to Girl B than Girl A. So he finds himself more connected to Girl B but still in an existing relationship with Girl A. He is torn between his own feeling to Girl B and guilt to Girl A.
The Issue: A relationship must only have 2 people. He cannot be greedy by wanting both or by not making decision who he wants to be with. He must know what he wants and who he wants to be with. People say that guys who has to pick between 2 girls are guys with wandering eyes and are womanizers. But logically, everyone wants to settle with the best person they can reach and maybe the Guy is only doing his humanly nature to keep looking for someone better. No matter what, since he has dragged 2 girls in the situation, he will still considered guilty no matter who he picks because he has to hurt the other one.
Point 2 (Girl A)
She is the first girl in the Guy’s life. She could be the girlfriend, the fiancée or the wife of the Guy. She knows she has the right over him. To her, she is the Guy’s commitment and responsibility.
Point 3 (Girl B)
She is the girl that comes latter in the picture. She is considered the Intruder in the relationship. Is she always a bad person when she’s called an Intruder? There are 2 types of Girl B.
Type I: She knows the Guy has someone but she purposely want to try her luck if she can still wins the Guy’s heart. To her, The Best Girl Wins.
Type II: She is not aware that the Guy has someone special already. Even if she does know, she thought it doesn’t concern her. But later on, situations put her in a position where she starts to get connected with the Guy and finally aware that she could be the intruder. She is torn between her feelings for the Guy and guilt towards Girl A.
The Issue: Whatever it is, Girl B is the third person in the relationship. If it’s marriage, it makes it sound even worse. It’s hard to give a good name to the girl in this position. People say that if she’s really nice, she won’t interrupt people’s relationship at all cost. If she goes ahead with the guy, she is considered heartless by building dream over Girl A ‘s tear and then sooner or later, karma will get back to her for doing this.
Now you guys are clear about the roles in the Love Triangle. Most girls out there surely have the experience of becoming Girl A or Girl B. You know how it feels to be the girl whose guy is stolen by someone else, and then you know how it feels to be the girl who steals someone’s guy. I also have experienced both – although not as dramatic as what happened to some of you. People say, Girl A is the Victim and the most pitiful person in this situation. They could be right. Because she must lack in something for the guy to start looking for another. The fact is that, maybe they are wrong too. She could be all that but still the Guy is hunting for a new person. Maybe this isn’t about what’s lacking In Girl A. Sometimes people change with time and surrounding. Mixed with chances and circumstances, anything could just start a spark between the Guy and Girl B, even if Girl A is already everything the Guy would ask for. It’s strange but it happens.
To be continued to Part II
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