Yes..as strange as it is. In what scenario that we need to do something like that? Doesn’t everyone want to be remembered? Why do we need to help someone forget us? Ok..ok.. I have the answer. Sometimes life isn’t so sweet being together. Being in each other’s mind is only a poison to “moving on” with your life. And you need to move on for a greener pasture. This happens a lot when a chemistry ceases to happen.. When the love is gone. When the feelings are fading away. When two persons decide to part ways and find a new life. How is that possible when at least either one is still clinging to the past? How is that possible when the other one keeps bringing up the past memories to stop the other one to move on?
Whether it’s the guy or the girl could be the clingy one. I could easily blame the girls because of their softer nature; so they tend to be clingy. But maybe not always the case. The guys can be clingy too. So it depends on case by case basis, anyone could be the one who NEEDS this help. Yes, the person needs your help in order to… forget you. Yes, forget you.
Have I ever be the one who needed this help? I could say, Yes, I have. Only once. And that’s all I could take. In my case, I don’t actually want to forget the person, though I need to. I was feeling very comfortable living with my past memories. But I was making it harder for the other person to move on. The person needed to forget me to stop getting hurt. It depends on how you look at things, actually. So he needed me to forget him as much as he wanted to forget me. This was what he did.
Whether it’s phonecall, SMS, email – Anything for that matter. If you want to make it even easier – Change all the contacts that makes the person easily drop you a “bomb note” with the message, “I have not moved on, so you can’t too.”
Yes, even if he had to do it in pain. In tears. But he had to do it.
If things were working out. No conflicts and heartache would even take place in the first place. So since something untoward has happened, getting haunted by the past gonna hold you in that heartache forever.
If you have found your way, let it be one last kindness. Help your ex to forget you.
Your ex will feel hurt at first…but trust me, he/she will thank you for helping him/her to forget you.
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melupakan seseorang yang pernah ada hubungan dengan kita adalah suatu perkara yang memang betul² susah dan menyakitkan. sama dengan bagaimana hubungan yang menyakitkan hati kita sewaktu berakhirnya detik² perhubungan itu sendiri.
kalau dulu kita selalu mengandaikan hukum fizik yang paling indah "duajam tangan kita dipegang oleh si dia mcm 2saat ja, tapi kalau tangan kita kena periuk panas selama 2saat ja mcm terasa duajam" begitu indah, begitu mempesonakan kehidupan ini apatah lagi sesuatu hubungan itu disulami dengan perkara² yang lebih dari sepatutnya. Hingga pada 1 ketika entah dimana silapnya hubungan itu bergelora beransur-ansur pudar dipenuhi pertelingkahan dan pada akhirnya membawa kepada hubungan yg menyakitkan. Walaupun begitu, sebenci-benci kita bersama si dia sewaktu berakhirnya era kegembiraan, kita tetap tdk akan & tdk dpt melupakan ikatan yg pernah terjalin.
Walaupun telah berpisah tentu andai kita bersendirian kita akan tertanya-tanya dan berfikir "mcm aa si Lompok sekarang, dia ada gelpren baru ka aa? dia masi ingat sa lagi ka a seperti sa masi ingat dia?" so perkara begini adalah normal walaupun tiada sudah perasaan antara 1 sama lain, masih ada sayang walaupun cinta sudah lama hilang. Kita hanya bisa tertawa dan tersenyum andai terserempak dgn ex kita dengan pasangannya masing2. setidaknya pun kalau kita tidak kejam pasti saling menegur "hai prutet" 'eh..hai Lompok' coz antara mereka da mendeklarasikan "let the past be a part of our memory"
jadi unt kelangsungan kehidupan masing2 tiada gunanya saling menyakitkan dan saling ada benci. betul si 3digit cakap, biarlah kita saling menolong untuk melupakan memory silam walaupun sa berani potong kuku jari memang dalam satu tanda jeda kehidupan seharian kita, pasti terselit sesaat mengingati si dia yg pernah bertahta di hati. memang sakit dan semestinya pahit..apa boleh buat telan saja la tapi pastikan kita telan benda yg pahit tu bersama dengan cicah madu atau gula agar mudah untk berada terus dalam perut.
/me tawa saja "there r many fishes in the sea" <-- pastikan jangan dapat ikan buntal aa atau spesis ikan yg tdk dapat dimakan nanti tak pasal² keracunan.
"walaupun sa berani potong kuku jari..." <--- Hahaahahahahhahahahahahahahhahah /me pingsan tawa. Dasyat kau ni wine, jarang2 tu ada urg berani putung kuku jari dia sendiri. *Lols
Biarpun banyak ikan di lautan, belum tentu kita nda terpikir ikan pirana ba kan winee... *Lols eh...silap...si munul pula ni. hahahahahaha
pingsan la sia tawa baca komen kau ni oo. /me pasik pipi si wine lols
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