Men sure know a lot about ladies. Men do know how they need attentions, how they like to be pampered, to be flattered, to listen to your sweettalking, to hear you talk about your feelings for them, to be loyal, to be caring…All those stuff. You guys know all those already.
Maybe because of what men already know, they think that ladies are demanding creatures. They want everything for themselves, they want everything from you to make them feel loved, they want every last piece that you can give them. So maybe that’s why men overlook the part where ladies don ‘t exactly want everything from their men’s lives. Ladies do want men to keep a few things and never want to steal these things away.
Little did men know that,
We don’t want them to lose their buddies just because they are paying too much attention to us or spending too much time with us,
We don’t want them to put us above their families all of the time, unless it’s crucial and necessary cos they have certain respect for men who know how to set priority and their parents and siblings should never get less attention from them for whatever reason
We don’t want them to be less efficient in their job just because they are busy in the wonderland with us. Their job and how they earn money should never be compromised because of our presence in their lives.
We don’t want men to try and be Mr Perfect cos we aren’t Miss Perfect either. We won’t mind that you look funny and silly knowing that it’s much better than seeing you all wrong trying to fake things up.
And if I shall add more serious demand from ladies, they are:
We know that men value us for certain qualities that they find in us, but we wish that, seeing us with the same kind of affection without our makeups, without our appealing clothes, without our groomed hair and without us wearing our angelic halo – Is part of that.
One more thing if I should add, Ladies want it badly that men make it a lifelong commitment to love us and treat us right, in health and in sickness, for better and for worse – and we give forever for men to prove that.
Those sound familiar, too familiar that the men overlook this. That…
We don’t want men to lose “who they really are”, they can keep the history and the past, even the embarrassing ones. Yes, and hopefully when they understand this, they finally care enough just let us be who we really are and accept our shortcomings and never judge us for our past mistakes. And that, it’s within our will that we ask for as much as we can give. Men won’t believe this but it’s true.
With this understanding, maybe we can see a brighter road ahead of us. Amen.
*giggles :))
Picture Of The Day
I only have 3 sets of lipsticks at the moment that I know are still around. I have a few that I misplace and have not found yet. *LOLS. I left the other one at the office. I've been using SilkyGirl Moisture Rich for years. I know some of the colours that really suit me but I'm not telling which. Hehehe. The blue one is only experimental, I bought it from Cosway, forgot the name but I will use it when I am in aggressive mood. Hehe. Although it's not the main reason why I use lipstick, but I think lipstick does make your smile look sweeter. *giggles
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