Keeping It Burning But Never Get Burnt

When we walked into a relationship, it gave us cold feet, butterfly in the stomach, not to mention getting a goosebump everytime you guys see each other. You can never deny that the early stage of relationship is the best stage. If only this remains like this for as long as you guys are still in love. And guess what, logically speaking, if both can still having that “early stage thrill”, I’m sure no relationship would ever end. It’s always the lost of Spark that makes the relationship less matters.

The question is, is that possible to keep the flame inside your heart for your partner? So that there will be no expiry date to the kind of feeling that makes your heart beat faster. If only that’s possible. I don’t say that it’s not possible, but the reality is that everything has its own course, and everything is going towards that end of line where suddenly to break apart is the only favourable solution available. But wait, ladies and gents. It can’t sound that easy, right? Don’t we have something to not be part of this cruel ending. No, since when life is that predictable. I believe that…There Something We Can Do…

It’s between 2 hearts that have vowed love for each other. There’s a special bond that ties those two. Of course when there are outside elements of strong force that could get between you two and somehow makes the bond start to loose. Not to mention human nature that makes the process easier. We can get bored, we always judging each other and we sulk over small things and all the other emotional elements that never go to rest. Then is it possible to keep the feelings burning?

In my opinion, YES it’s possible. When 2 persons want the same thing so badly, how can anything be stronger than that, except for the will of God of course. So when 2 persons still fight for the relationship, that’s like the first green light that things can work out. Of course, over time the feeling will fade away a little bit, especially when you guys share so much and the thrill of curiosity starts to take the excitement little by little. It’s cruel, right? How come something so good that has gotten better and better, is only for the sake of making it bad and turns to worse from there. Can we defy this?

From my little mind, can I just suggest a few things that can be done. I have never tried them yet but I am just using logic. I think like what most people think, to have a little bit of ups and downs in a relationship is crucial to give it a little adventure. Everytime you guys make up from an argument, it makes you two wiser about the relationship and wiser about each other. When it starts to go on a flat boring line, no arguments, no jealousies, no sulking - yeah, Peaceful as it seems, but it’s the sign that you must do something to spice it up. Do something new, surprise each other, change your way of doing it in the relationship; for example, when he listens to you all the time, it’s time for you to listen to him instead. No one is the master and the slave in a relationship. You two have both equal power. Never hold too much feelings, say it and let the partner know how much he means to you too. Or just try to generously show it in action. All the little efforts, although most of them might go unappreciated, it’s how you put a fight to keep the flame burning that matters. When he does the same, how can this go wrong. When this continues, if one of you are really tempted to walk away for the most stupid reason, your value as a partner will hold your partner back. Just in case the worst thing happen to your relationship, The kind of efforts that you give, will stand out. Eventually any sane person out there can evaluate. They can never deny the person who loves them the most, especially when they have once loved the person so much too. Maybe this will bring back all the reason why you two are best stuck with each other. The grass might be greener at the other side, but who cares, when you have the most beautiful flower with you.

Never give up without giving your best fight. And yes, you can keep it burning. Some people have proven this if you are lucky enuff to find any of them. I have, and I believe that I can do the same. Same with you. So go ahead and keeps the fire inside you burning, burn endlessly, for the rare kind of love that is worth fighting for…AMEN :)

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