256's July Journal Day 20: Spice Up Your Life!

I have two facts to share. 1 is I am a person who does get bored. 2 is I was once a fan of Spice Girls. And being a person who gets bored and was a fan of Spice girls, finally I can relate when I recall one of their famous songs, Spice Up Your Life. Unfortunately, you are just like me. We all get bored of the same old thing, even how good it used to be. Face it, human beings. When it comes to your life, when you get bored of your life, you do something and continue with your life. You don’t have a choice as long as you wake up breathing the next day. The only time when you stop doing that is when you blow your last breath. What if you live up to 100 years? You know you gotta have to find a way to continue living your life the way that you can stand living, until you die. Yes. Now lets talk about relationship. Relationship is a bit unlucky compared to life. Cos when you get bored with urs, you can just dump it. You have a choice to stop trying to enjoy it once again. When your relationship reaches the stage of Comfort, the chase is over and the thrill is getting lesser. The risk if when it hits a plataeu, you both become lost in the direction and it starts to get dull and all the love colours are fading. No worries. It won’t just happen to one of two, but to every relationship. I learn it even more recently. In the last relationship, I remember being the one who tried something new and it helped a lot. After a while, I realized that he was trying too hard too to still keep me impressed. Now if your guy starts to act different, don’t weep just yet. Don’t point fingers. You will have your time too. Depends on how badly you want to make it work. If yes, then DO STHING. Spice It Up! Bring new elements of excitement, make him smile again. Even if it gets you tired of that when your surprises become old, he will know how much you try and most likely will appreciate it. So when your time comes, he will be the one who does it. Good relationship doesn’t just happen. It needs effort and if you are tired of starting it over with another one, go spice this one that you have now, and show him your worth. Go spice it up, Go Go Go!