The Doll Domination

I pick this title to speak about the woman domination in the world where men are expected to lead. I have to admit that I do have tough characters. Tough as in firmness and as in principal and stubbornness too. In case you ask me, Do I like to be dominant?

In a way, I do. I like to feel like I have strength and abilities where my other half benefits from it too. I like to feel useful in a relationship and I dislike it when my partner is way too strong compared to me that I don't feel like I'm needed and contributing. Yeah, that's the thing. But again, speaking of being dominant, maybe I do need to feel that I have a share of domination. Which means the other half must go to the guy. What kind of guy that can handle that responsibility?

Right. He too must have strength in his characters. It doesn't mean  that he needs to have better education level, which I don't really care that much. If he thinks I am smarter than him, well, I'll let him surpass me in other things. In other words, I don't like to be dominant. I'm into power sharing. 

I like my man to be the one who wears the pants. I like him to be the leader. And if one of us needs to have more power than the other, let it be him. So that's why, as much as I'm practicing my tough side, I must know when to tone it down. I must make him speak his manly voice and I will shut up and listen. I like it when sometimes he tells me what I do wrong and ask me to correct my ways. I like it that I sometimes be the fragile one, that I will sometimes cry over little things so he knows how needed he is. And I do want him to know my weaknesses so that he knows when to be stronger to balance that. In other words, to all the men out there. Your women might be wanting the same thing in your relationship. Especially for the dominant women, you know that they will make the effort to still give you your Manly job to do so that you can have you ego intact. All in all, lets be reminded that relationship isn't about Power. It's about togetherness. 

May God protect and bless the relationship that 2 sincere people have - may they overcome obstacles one by one and may they sustain the love and affection as you command your people to live by. May the love they share just go bigger and deeper from here. Amen :))