For someone talkative, do you have any idea how many words you speak in a day? Try multiply that by 7 days a week. Can we expect billions of words? Or zillions? I bet you can't even count. It's uncountable. You can just go with the speed of hundreds of words in minutes times. There are just too many words spoken out, and can anyone able to digest them properly? The next thing you know, none of your words are remembered. Then you start to wonder why. Here's what you need. A SILENT NIGHT.
I believe that even 2 people who love each other do need A SILENT NIGHT, a time where both can take a break from speaking, or topping up into the undigested words. No one has the capability of sustaining to something with the same acceleration for a long period of time. You must understand that your partner also has his/her things to worry about, not to mention some of distractions that shouldn't be there...Sometimes we are just not fit to be super charming all the times. There are times when we fall short of attention, we tend to make our partner feel ignored and neglected. Sometimes we are carried away by the fact that we securely loved by our partner that we don't need that much effort anymore unlike during the chasing stage. When you start to have this kind of thinking, I assure you that your partner need to declare A Silent Night with you. Right, looks like you need this lesson.
It's during the silence that you start to realize that you do appreciate her gazillions of words. That you can even take more than that as long as she just lets you hear her voice like every other nites. Who knows, maybe you can reconnect back to your senses, that maybe you have done some mistakes to her that you didn't take seriously. Maybe only then you realize that it is tough to go by a night without good nite from her. It's sad, predictably. But it sure brings a lot of consciousness to human beings who always forget their ground when they feel like their world is theirs.
I bet it's healthy to take a break from each other. With a friendly remark and understanding - or especially needed when you start to have all funny thoughts going on in your mind. A silent night is what you need to cool down, to clear your mind and to think twice before you say anything stupid that you might regret. All in all...Go for silent night(s) because you believe that your love can be stronger than what it has been. All the best :))
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