Falling Before Meeting: Possible?

Have you ever fell in love with someone you have not even met? Ask yourself that. If yes, means you have the answer to the title. Yes, It’s Possible!!

Last nite, a chatfriend brought this up. He said that “How can you fall in love with me when you don’t even meet me yet?” He did say anyway that at least you use webcam or call everyday, Maybe. So what he meant here is when you fall in love with someone with the limited way of conversation. Maybe just chatting or texting. So what do you think?

This is what I answered him. I said, “Love grows in the heart.” Maybe it’s not so much about visuals or things – cos when you feel the spark, it just happens. So when this happens, some people call it with different names. As long as there’s a name. So it just happens that they call it Love :)

Maybe some of you argue or doubt that this is Love. Hey…hey…come on. Let me share my view. It doesn’t matter what they call it. You know that there is something special has taken place been you and that someone. What if they have very lack of vocabulary, the best word they can think of is “Oh I Love The Person”. So if you don’t agree what they call it, does it matter? You know something is happening in your heart. Maybe your heartbeat is getting faster when you think about the person. Or you can feel adrenaline rush when you see the person’s nick around. You see that? You don’t plan what gonna happen to you. You don’t plan when all your nerve system and brains start to act funny when you think about someone. Although what you have in mind might not be that visual enough, but WHAT TO DO when you still undergo all the auto reactions? Maybe there’s something about the person that stimulates your senses that causes all that reactions. Then if all that happens, what’s wrong if they choose to call it Love?

Maybe it’s just admiration. Maybe it’s just infatuation. Maybe it’s just feeling of awe. The real thing could be anything but it doesn’t matter what the word is. You just know it’s so overwhelming and it engulfs you with nice feelings. So the question is, does all this take place only after you meet the person? You can meet the person millions of times and still No Sparks happens. I’m sorry to say that I don’t think our feelings follow any system or procedure. When you feel something, you just feel it.

So when 2 people who have not met but declared love for each other, I’d say just give them the chance to see where it’s taking them. We, who are not in the picture shouldn’t worry so much whether or not they use the Right word to call their feelings. To me anything good that has started somewhere could go far from there. Just give them the chance to explore the feelings. This thing with our hearts knows no rules :) So now why you question when they claim to fall in love before they even meet? When they eventually meet, they will redefine the whole thing.

It’s all good, guys. Just let them be so they have a story to tell, a unique story that defies conventionality. I'd say, Why Not :)