For all the years, we keep wondering whether the person beside us really loves us. We judge his every action and words - trying to find the reason why we think he might not love us for real, without realizing that he's always been there comforting us and accompanying us even when his presence is less appreciated. It’s like watching a drama series that has a big question mark “Does the hero love the heroin? And only found out the answer at the final episode that Yes, the hero has always been in love with the heroin. But then the episode is over. If only we know about it earlier, we would enjoy the love story longer. Sometimes that’s what we do. We spend all the time doubting and entertaining suspicions instead of enjoying the love that we share with our special one. We could spend so long in a relationship when all we actually have are nothing but jealousy, payback, misunderstanding, arguments and mistrust. If only we put our focus on why the relationship is there in the first place, we could have a longer savoured and cheered union in the paradise that we create only with the presence of the both of us.
Instead of just asking the question Does he love me?, ask no more when he’s been showing it in his own way that you have a special place in his heart. If only we remember that life might not give us enough time to spend the lifetime to ask question instead of just go ahead and live with what we already have but ignore them because of our negligence and wrong focus. Sometimes I tell myself to have Less Doubt and Learn To Trust cos it’s too energy and time consuming to do otherwise.
I might be right all along about one thing. People are talking about The Truth, they thought they would fight and battle just to know the truth. At the end of the day, it’s not about what is true or what is right – It’s all about what you believe. Guys…these elements are taking so much from us by manipulating our mind. They want us to find something we don’t seek, want something we don’t need and make fuss about all the petty things that don’t even matter.
Just clear your mind and enjoy the affection.
Stay in love, people :)
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